My friends with benefits asked to make a baby?

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My friends with benefits texted me and asked could we make a baby [24M] [25F]

I haven’t really seen my sex buddy in a month. Due to our schedules clashing.

I posted a picture on Snapchat and he replied and said “oh my lord”

Then he texted me and asked me could he come over tonight. I said “idk i have to work early tomorrow “ and he said “please, you must got another man or something because you normally say yes anytime i ask”

Then i said “if i did it’s none of your business” and he texted back and said “can we make a baby tonight can i finish inside you tonight”

TL:DR; is it normal or a joke if he’s asking for a baby

Cuminginside · Accepted Answer

Normally I wouldn't even respond now with that said becoming a fetish nowadays I seen this type of question on this site a few times so it's got to be some type of fetish I'm going to assume that you're on some type of birth control ask him if it's a fantasy with him if it is make sure your birth control is good to go pick up your legs to your head and let him shoot away I'm assuming you know his STD status and yours as well I know those are pretty big assumption. If he's getting jealous because of the other guy that's pretty desperate move.

cutsleeveboy · Accepted Answer

you should not have a baby with him as it is just a casual hook-up with him and no real relationship. you should be married in a serious relationship before thinking about having a baby. its pretty certain he will stop coming around after a while and your stuck with taking care of a baby on your own.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Many friends with benefits's don't have more than one, they decide to do it and be exclusive, not because they love each other but to be safe from STD's. If they really are you friend you would not want to get something from them or give them something.

It sounds like he wants more than just a friends with benefits relationship.

PhenomenalQueen · Accepted Answer

I would find this to be extremely creepy joking or not… Especially because you guys had a pause, unless he regularly jokes around like this?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That's not the most important part of this conversation. What you said to him was rude. If you have another friends with benefits, it is very much his business. Because he needs to know if he's at risk of catching an STD.

Now, regarding the question you asked: I don't know why he said that. But it was stupid. If he thinks you're banging another dude, then how is having a child with you going to help anything? It's not. That isn't going to automatically make him your boyfriend.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

The fact you know him better than any of us? I find it scary that you don't know if he's joking or not!

spartan55 · Answer

What a moron. I have never and would never joke about that with some chick I was just fucking. So he can't commit to anything beyond fucking you, but he wants to impregnate you? MORON...(great choice by the way)

exitseven · Answer

A baby is a lot more responsibility than a pet rock. You should just go for the rock.

ohshee · Answer

No he's not asking for a baby he said let's make a baby he just wants to make it so he's tied to you I think the Guy's in Love

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

That's quite a big thing to toss out there. I would guess it was an attempt at a joke or perhaps he thinks you have a fetish... I would talk to him about it and find out for sure

Anonymous · Answer

A guy doesn't "joke" about that. I'd reply with "that's not what fwbs do". Combine that with his jealousy or worry that he's not exclusive, he likes you as more than fwbs. So you have a decision to make.

innerman · Answer

I think he just wants to hv sex.. just hv fun. Maybe he’s catching feelings... it’s too early too tell

noohair · Answer

Guys used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. Women wanted Freedom and Equality. This is the unintended consequences.

NastyGalilée · Answer

Seems to be jealous, and propose to cum inside you as a form of appartenance But make a baby is not un this context a true proposition.

Anonymous · Answer

Wanting to make a baby is not something you spring on someone by text. Red flag.

michael1469 · Answer

He is politely asking for sex rather then saying lets fck.

Calgarydirty69 · Answer

you're choice, kids are hard work, and will probably out live you

Anonymous · Answer

he was trying to get you knocked up and he was looking for a cum dumpster a fuck n chuck a pump n dump for the night

DaveToo · Answer

Find another sex buddy

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I’d dump this jealous selfish man

Iron_Man · Answer

Horrible idea he doesn’t love you

OddBeMe · Answer

is this why there's so many assholes on welfare?

Jerre · Answer

Not normal, he just wants to fuck you

jimmy2 · Answer

Wow be careful

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