My friends with benefits accidentally got me pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Should I tell him about the baby?

[sunnyallurs]

yes you should... ur decision ahead should be based on his approach towards this situation. but you should be ready for both of the scenarios of him supporting you or not.

[Asker]

The chances of me keeping the baby are very slim.

[sunnyallurs]

that's ok.. but you still need to tell him.. me being a guy would still want to know if I was in such a situation.. the decision is still yours..

[Prof_Don]

If you're certain the baby is his... yes u should, he is half of the baby's genetic makeup after all. :-P

[Asker]

Well he's the only man I've slept with in the past year so I'm pretty sure haha.

[EmpatheticLady]

I'd tell him. He's going to see that you're pregnant eventually, I'm guessing. Better save some surprise by getting it out of the way now instead of months down the line.

[Asker]

I'm not planning on keeping the baby that's why I'm asking sort of.

[EmpatheticLady]

Ah, I gotcha. Hmmm, that's tough. Do you know where he stands on having kids? Even if he's not ready for one, most guys would like to know if they've fathered a child, I think.

[Asker]

He has a big family and I know he wants something similar

[EmpatheticLady]

Ohhh, jeez, well... I think it'd still tell him and discuss your options. I know you don't want to keep the baby, but it is his as well. He deserves to at least know what happened.

[bbch2345]

Yes. Even if you plan on getting an abortion, or are planning on keeping the baby. This way you guys can discuss about what's best.

[natured]

OF COURSE YOU MUST !! Why would you NOT TELL HIM...

I wish you the best luck though <3

[Neverrrmore]

Obviously the answer is yes. It's his child too and he deserves to know.

[Asker]

Even if I don't plan on keeping it?

[Neverrrmore]

Yes. Whatever you decide doesn't change that fact that he is and will forever be a father so he deserves to at least know.

[lightbulb27]

well, that is one of the benefits of sex, so yes. he needs to know cause if he's with another woman, it could get worse.

[DizzyAster]

Yeah, he had a hand in it, or rather a penis in it.

[AskNaz]

Lmaooo 😂

[lil_Wítch]

O my gosh. What happened? Did he slip over your birth control pill and shove it in breaking his condom on the process?

[SovereignessofVamps]

I'd say get an abortion, he probably has other women.

[DarylDenis]

You should tell him, that would not only reveal his true colors, but you would alsp see if he appreciates your honesty.

[dolemite68]

tell him, i honestly think if an accident is gunna happen a friends with benefits is the best person to have a baby with.

[Asker]

Oh... no, I'm not going to be keeping the baby. But yeah.

[dolemite68]

oh ok, ya just tell him he should be supportive

[Darkdragon79]

I guess now he going to be more than friends with benefits.

[Asker]

Not really.

[Anonymous]

Are you serious? But of course yes! It's his right to know and he's duty to help you with the consequences

[Anonymous]

If it was me I would only tell him if I wanted to keep it, but If you think he wouldn't be a good dad and wanted to be a single mum then don't tell him it's your choice☺️

[Anonymous]

Depends do you want him to pay child support? Or do you want to get rid of it. Either way he has a right to know especially if he wants to opt out of fatherhood if you keep it

[lumberman9]

Yes unless you're planning to get an abortion tell him he should know

[asdsafgdfg]

this is why abstinence is good

[TML1979]

yes u should its the honest thing to do

[love_truth]

first congratulations.

[Asker]

Um, no. I'm not celebrating

[love_truth]

how was your first reaction?

[Asker]

Anger.

[love_truth]

on whom?

[Asker]

Myself, mostly. I was being dumb

[love_truth]

why not used condom?

[Asker]

I was on birth control.

[love_truth]

what's that

[Teenwolf18]

the one who does not know what birth control is.

[love_truth]

not everyone know everything. and you don't know my life what problem i am facing. what challenges i have.

[Teenwolf18]

whhhaaattt?

[samhradh_leannan]

Yes, he should know.

[Anonymous]

yes you should it is his baby too so he must know

[Sweetiecristina]

Please keep the baby, all human life is valuable.

[Asker]

That part of it isn't up for discussion. :)

[jessederG]

yes definitely

[SnowHearth]

Do tell

[Zinkr7]

Yes.