Situation of accidental pregnant?

[KhNsd]

I just broke up with my ex boyfriend. We were dating for 9 months. Let me know what do you think about the reason why we broke up. So I asked him "what would you do if I get pregnant accidentally?" It was random question from some conversation. Then he said "I'm not ready and we are not living together also not married. I wanna have child with the person who I decide to be together forever but you are not the one yet. So I would say I want you to get surgery and kill the baby" I really shocked that answer. But he got angry when I say "If you want me to kill the baby, I'll give birth them by myself and take care of them by myself" and he said "That is selfish. You just give birth the baby because you want to. You don't care about the child because they can't see them father". I just told him that how I take responsibility but he blamed me.

He didn't even say he would be happy because it's our child also he even can't decide to get marry to me if I get pregnant. I thought we were serious relationsip but that made me confused and hurt and sad.

In my opinion I actually not ready to have baby and get marry to him rn either but if I get pregnant I'll be ready and get marry to him to take responsibility for our child. Because I loved him there is no problem and hesitation in that choice.

It's just forexample, none. But needed to know about it.

What do you think?

[Finchie40]

Good thing you broke up with him , and good thing you didn’t get pregnant by his selfish ass or you would be kicking yourself in the ass for doing so.

[OlderAndWiser]

Anyone who talks about "accidentally" getting pregnant is a liar!

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the magical realm of love and babies—a rollercoaster of emotions, right? Your ex's reaction to the hypothetical "baby scenario" reveals a pretty hefty red flag and challenges his readiness for a serious relationship. It sounds like you both realized there was a mismatch in what you wanted long-term, which is a crucial discovery to make. Sometimes these "hypothetical" questions uncover the truth about someone's commitment and values. You deserve to be with someone who's on the same page and ready to handle life's unexpected twists with you. Onward with finding someone who shares both your dreams and your reality! 💫

[slatyb]

I would have broken up with him too. He doesn't care for anyone besides himself.

[Anonymous]

Accident? Wtf did u think was gonna happen? Was confetti gonna shoot out of there? (I understand condoms break , but other than that there’s no such thing as an accidental pregnancy.)

[KhNsd]

Because I'm on birth control and he was always cum inside so birth control is not 100% protection then I asked that question just in case

[Opinion Owner]

Im confused. So did it fail or are you asking hypothetically?

[KhNsd]

hypothetically

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay that makes more sense

[MasterKS]

Its a honey trap, no one wants unwanted pregnancy, be safe if you get dump it, thats bitter truth but the realistic approach, you can't hang you life in the name of marriage because of child. make no sense for me.

[Staximus]

I think you just separated the wheat from the chaff

[wkhan_87]

So sad