Today I took a pregnancy test and it came back positive. I had missed my period and didn't think to much of it since I had had a yeast infection caused by antibiotics, which also caused my birth control to not be as effective. I had an ongoing situationship for months then it fizzled and we only were doing occasional hookups. I was tired of the whole situation and cut it off a month and a half ago.
During just our hookup phase I started talking to someone else and we recently started dating a month ago (we have not been intimate). He is amazing and treats me wonderful.
I don't really know what I should do. The situationship guy and I already had a pregnancy scare before and he had brought up abortion because he's 22 and says he's not ready to be a father. I really like the guy I've been dating, but I already have 2 kids from my previous marriage and and now this. I have clue how to go about this whole mess. Advice 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
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Ten years from now, will you be happy that you paid someone to kill your unborn child?
Many women have huge regrets and long term depression as a result of having an abortion.
Can you afford another child. If the friends with benefits isn’t ready to be a dad then you really can’t rely on him. But his input on this matter is valid too so you need to tell him. Would this new guy stick around? Can you see a future with him? These are all questions that need answers. If I were in the position I wouldn’t hesitate to abort but I also don’t want kids and know I wouldn’t be a good parent.
Keep the kid, dump the boy.