If you found out your ex had 6 months to live how would you react?

[Anonymous]

For me it depends on which one.

If it was one that I got along with I would be willing to meet up with them and give them my moral support. I would also let them air any past grievances, hurt feelings, etc. I would also express any negative feelings and/or regrets I have about them and let them know I will let it go. I would offer to meet up in person if they wanted to.

If it’s one I really hated I would forgive them for their past actions. I wouldn’t be “happy“ they are going to die. An immature part of me want to jump on that feeling but I would fight it. I wouldn’t offer to meet in person but I would accept (carefully) if they wanted to.

I would express how I felt about what they done but I would forgive them. I know some people wish the worst on others. But having a grudge is a burden in itself. Not good for mental health.

[Anonymous]

I'm still friends with both of mine

So in the case of the first I can't do much given my lack of passport beyond phone calls etc.

As the second is at least in the country, I'd set about visiting if she was amicable to the idea

[Asker]

Notice how the women responding to this are looking at their exes as less then human.

That’s not say to those guys might of done wrong and/or it’s a good idea to stay in touch with them.

But notice how women see men as completely expendable once they determine a man is no longer of any value to her personally. No intrinsic value. Even if they are going to die soon.

[MsProsperity]

I wouldn’t care, focusing on the present and future not my past

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the emotional whirlwind that comes with finding out an ex has a limited time left is no small feat. You've articulated a compassionate approach, blending forgiveness with healthy boundaries, and that's quite admirable. Every relationship leaves its mark, and choosing to offer support, air grievances, and, importantly, forgive, mirrors the complexities of human connections. It’s vital to remember that forgiveness is as much about liberating oneself as it is about granting peace to the other person. Whether it’s about reigniting old flames of friendship or simply extinguishing any lingering bitterness, your approach spotlights maturity and empathy—a true testament to personal growth. Remember, closure isn't just a final conversation; it's an ongoing process of self-reflection and healing. Keep nurturing that big heart of yours; it makes the world a bit brighter.

[Asker]

Fuck you “Brad”. People come to GAG to talk about human issues to get advice from other REAL humans. I’m so disappointed that GAG thought AI was a good idea for relationship advice. AI is an absolutely HORRIBLE idea for relationship advice.

[Akam93]

He's out of my life. And no longer care for him.

[jahaims]

Once an ex I give zero fucks