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Just a random poll... let me know if i should do more!

i told my boyfriend when we first started dating I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. He said he could wait. we're both 20, im a virgin and he is not. I had never even kissed anyone before him. Anyways we've been dating 5 or 6 months now and he is kind of pressuring me into having sex with him, it was more gradual at first, now he acts like its like super important to him, like he needs to have sex or we won't work. I asked him if he lied to me when we first started dating. He said he wasn't lying but he thought I would have like changed my mind by now or something...

If you love the girl will you wait?

Me and my male best friend have known each other for the last 14 years but only been close for the last 3 years.

I'm sort of struggling with my feelings towards him as he keeps throwing mixed signals everywhere.
A few months ago we started holding hands/putting our arms around each other. He's the one who makes the move first and then he'll either say one of the two things. "We won't be able to do this when I have a girlfriend" or "I need to get used to just have one arm when I'm around you".

A month ago he was going off at how good in bed he was as I was saying "I just want it over and done with", his response would be "you wouldn't be saying that if it were me". He has personally told me he has never had sex with someone he had deep feelings for. And then as we said goodbye he said "one day I'll be married, have kids and we won't be best friends anymore, just friends".
He points out that since we have been close friends that neither of us has been in a long term relationship.

He has once carried me to hospital when I were having mild chest pains (weren't serious enough to call an ambulance, but was told I had a chest infection for those who will question why I didn't call for an ambulance)
He would sometimes brush the hair out of my eyes randomly, allows me to sit on his lap, we both listen to each others music with earphones in. if I start liking a guy, he would say he's not good enough for me.
Everyone at his work thinks we go out or at least sleep with each other.
We have never kissed, let alone had sex.

He gives me his debit card saying "go wild" when I'm in my favourite clothes shop. Letting me buy anything I want but usually he would do this to bribe me to come out with him on a special occasion (his nephew's christening or his cousins wedding and even his birthday)

From this description what does he want from me? Friendship, relationship, just sex or something else?

Sorry, I had to make the title a little more dramatic than it actually is. If you follow any of my other q's then by now you know I have a huge (revealed) crush on my good friend/coworker. (Its just a temp part-time job for me so no coworker relationship no-no's apply. I will be leaving in Jan.)
We are great friends & very close friends at work. Comfortable talking about anything & everything with each other. Im 22 & he's newly 27 so our minor age difference helps us to get along better.
We have never done anything outside of light touching & a lot of flirtatious convos. The farthest I've gone was kissing him on the neck in the back room. We also have never hung out outside of work. I ask him every now & then if he wants to hang out on my weekends off. The answer is always a sarcastic sure or he has plans elsewhere, but after asking him today he replied with; "I got family in town this week so however early they leave tomorrow ill come through". That is the first time he's ever answered with something remotely close to a serious yes. Im excited that it will actually happen but now that he said yes I don't know what we're gonna do. I dont want to have sex or hookup or anything. If kissing happens thats fine but as far as activities/topics Im lost lol.
My questions are...
1. Do you think he's serious about showing up? If so, does it seem like it will be a quick thing or an actual hang out?
2. What should we do/talk about?
I attached a poll too. Thanks!

Before you say "sex" or any other "fun" ideas we are both very mature. We live with parents and we dont always have time alone for that, and we can not get a hotel room.
So Im already doing cute handmade stuff. But its the buying part Im stuck on.
he's 19. And weve been dating three months, but we are taking things very seriously and plan on staying together for a long time.
he's in his second year of medical school. Likes playing guitar, and owns probably 60 albums (CDs), as every man he loves his food. he's hilarious and likes anti jokes.
He tells me he doesn't want anything... But i can't get him nothing. He ordered my present online and says is getting me a few other little things. he's not into any sports but hockey, but already has everything he needs for that.
He has a nice watch.
If you could post your responds and also vote for a poll explaining why that would be perfecf!! Thank you in advance everyone!