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I'm going to have a longer thing explaining stuff but the big thing is my girlfriend having online guy friends (people she's never met in person) makes me very protective and jealous. I honestly don't care is she has guy friends as long as she has met them in person. Am I wrong?

So me and my girlfriend are long distance and have been dating for over 10 months now. We got in a lot of fights this last month and decided to talk a break for a week. It looked like that might have helped be then the first day we got back together I found out she texted her "ex" I say "ex" because she met the guy and said yes to being his girlfriend and left him in less then a month and it was all online. So she texts this guy who she only ever knew for like two weeks who she stopped talking to because he was a asshole and they haven't had any contact for over a year. I get mad and ask her to stop texting him, first she tells me that she was sick and wasn't thinking then I said that then she can tell him she's done talking to him for good and that we can move on. She gets more mad at me and tells me I'm controlling. And at this point the guy texts me (I guess she gave him my number) and said "ur whore sent me nudes sh my b**** now" and so I go off on him and her. Things get really bad then her friend takes her phone and texts me and the other guy, she starts to say I'm controlling and stuff then she figured out that the other guy has been lying a lot and I show her what the guy says. Me and my girlfriend talk and we both say sorry. We're talking another break for at lest a month. I had her promise me she will not talk to anymore guys online, I said I'm ok with real life guys just not online ones. Is that contorting? Also it hasn't even been a week and I miss her bad. How to help that?

the women he's dating (but you can actually see an abusive, two-faced bitch in a woman when you see one) and being too over-protective or overbearing of your son because you still want to treat him like a child (not letting him go) and irrationally hate the women that he dates for no good reason?

Most of us men would feel embarrassed to have overbearing moms who would not allow us to think for ourselves like adults but at the same time, there are some men (whether or not we like to admit it) who are either too blind or too stupid to acknowledge that he's dating the wrong woman (who's either a gold digger or just a plain bitch).

I'll admit, it'll be nice for a mom to do that for the stupid men who allow themselves to be taken advantage of by the women they date as long as they don't share this embarrassing problem in public because of our supposed "manhood".

What's your take?

So there's this girl I met in one of my lectures in college (we are both freshmen), and things started to hit off. We first started by sitting next to each other, than exchanging numbers, than hanging out around campus and even skipping lecture to hang out. Clearly we are interested in each other. But there is one problem. She has a boyfriend. Yes. A boyfriend.. I know I'm in the wrong to be messing with someone's girl but in my defense she never mentioned him until I asked. And when I did, her immediate response was "yeah, well kind of.. we fight a lot" and went on to tell me that he went to a college in a different state. She never mentioned him again on her own until the next time we hung out I had discretely brought it up again. And to my surprise she begin to complain about him, calling him crazy and saying that he was too protective which is why they argued a lot. She even said that he wasn't the type of guy she wanted to marry. So I don't know if I'm comprehending this the right way, but I took that as 'We aren't staying together for long, I am interested in you'. But I truly don't know what to do. I mean, this girl is awesome, we have a lot in common and she's very genuine. One of the few girls that actually make me nervous. There is this haunted house thing my college is hosting and I was thinking about asking her to go with me, but this past weekend her boyfriend came into town and today she acted a little differently, a little less flirty than usual, but I also know she got really little sleep because I got a text from her at 2:30 in the morning and our lecture is at 9. Any advice on what my next step should be? Thanks yall.