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Me and my boyfriend have broken up multiple times (yeah i know.. quite toxic but we love each other too much to let go)

He always has been the one trying to come back to me and then we get back together again

But yesterday we broke up
And he said to me:
"Im not going to try to come back to you anymore. I've been trying so hard to be with you and im always the one coming back. So if u want me back, its your turn to try. I will hear you out but Im done"

But after that.. he did try calling me and messaging me and I picked up & responded abit despite him saying he will never contact me again unless I try

Although.. today, I heard nothing from him
No message
No calls

Is he really done?
Why did he contact me after breaking up even though he said he will not contact again?

I'm not really sad anymore about the breakup, i reflect on the relationship and i can see some things that i didn't see when i was with him. I've wrote thank you and forgiving letters to myself about what he did. I've done a lot of grieving and self work on myself and learned a lot. We were only together for half a year. The breakup in a way was blindsided because i thought we could work on it but at the end he was an asshole. he asked me a question before if we were to take a break and told me were not taking a break or breaking up just to break up with me a few days later. I've come to notice talking to someone else and potentially having a relationship my walls are up and emotions are like frozen. I get excited about the new guy but then its like back to feeling nothing sometimes.

In the beginning he told me he wants to be there for me and be apart of my mess and we will get through anything just to have him breakup with me. Not work on something which ultimately would have more issues down the road so its good we broke up but i thought we could work on it if we really "loved each other". Addiction got the best of him and blindsided me in a way.