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Search Results: drives guys away
Is this a red flag? should I block him?
I have been chatting to a guy off an online dating site. Before we were chatting it really wasn’t going anywhere he didn’t seem to want to get to know me much. He just wanted to meet up with me very soon, and gave his...
Anonymous
(30-35) I Wish A Guy Would Reject Me This Way
A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.- Rihanna A Mohammed If you have ever dated, you’ve been on both ends of rejection. You have done the rejecting and been rejected. I’ve definitely had my fair share...
little_bird1
Guru Age: 37 Can someone tell me why this guy acts like he is afraid of me?
When I was 14 he kissed me. He was 16, almost 17. He kept saying I was too young and that he was sorry. We became super close after this, with random stolen kisses here and there. Everyone asked us why we weren't together...
Anonymous
(30-35) I'm one of those nice guys who just can't get any girlfriends?
I know one of my problems is that I don't drive but I can't still get around just fine! For over 20 years I been looking for someone but with no absolutely luck it's like I'm not any Worthy to have a attractive,...
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 Should we blame the victim as well as the predator?
Whether it's about rape, theft, etc... I think we can really still blame the victim. If we truly care about the victim we should. Life isn't fair. We cannot stop the predator from being bad but the victim usually can do...
Nadim171
Yoda Age: 21 Why love and relationships aren't what they were before
This is probably something that is brought up more often than it seems. Maybe there are more people that share my views. What inspired me to write this Take is another Take directed at women who want a partner, it just...
Anonymous
(25-29) When would be a good time to tell a guy that you are abstaining?
So, I met this guy on a 16hr plane ride about 4 months ago, We talked, laughed, and just vibed in general and it was really fun. He was handsome and really sweet. Dang, he even let me lay on his shoulder after 6 hours...
Anonymous
(25-29) How long will it take for a guy to text me after giving out my number?
So I saw this cute guy at the beach today. He was walking somewhat in my direction when I first saw him. It appeared as though he was looking my way but I also couldn’t tell for sure. After that, I saw him get in his car...
Daniellep1995
Xper 6 Age: 31 Has He Lost Interest Over Quarantine?
[This is about the same guy from my previous question 5 months ago.] We had started calling each other almost every other day during his drives back from work. These calls would normally last about an hour, but sometime...
Silver_Arrow
Xper 5 Age: 25 Was I his rebound?
For the past two weeks I have been speaking a lot to this guy I met online and we hit it off fine. We have had talks to meet up recently. He lives an hour away from me and suggested that he spends the day with me this...
Amanda2
Explorer Age: 35 I was an abusive boyfriend to a perfect girl (not physically, but emotionally) and I regret that she has left my life now, What do I do?
For details, I body shamed her on her being fat often and recently in spite said "I broke up with you once because I didn't want to be wasting my life with a fat Asian while guys worse looking than me are fucking...
homegardener2
Xper 3 Age: 30 Problem Solving Men
Yesterday I had a puzzle to solve. A problem. At 12:05am, with the crowd-sourcing help of fellow male gaggers, I figured it out. I'd love to say that after that celebratory moment I fell into a heavy and blissful sleep...
I witnessed Attempted Rape but I dont wanna be labeled as a snitch what do I do?
I heard what happened recently regarding racism and we all are sad however not everyone shares our emotions. There is a guy in my college whose name is Chris. Now Chris is a typical white boy whose dad is a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Overcoming Depression by Facing the Past
Hey! This mytake will be the only one in a long line of mytakes that isn’t a question, anonymous or otherwise. Take it easy on me, this is my first time. I was inspired to write something about depression, and...
angiebangie
Xper 6 Age: 110 Girls, Why do you gals get offended if guys approaches you even if it's in a genuine way?
I really don't get girls nowadays because they often think of me as a monster. They will say "what is your motive", "you only care when I post a picture of myself" or think I'm out to get them. Meanwhile, I don't drink, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Worried for my friend?
My friend is dating a guy they were friends like brother and sister. Now they they are engaged and he doesn't respect her she goes out late at night to see me to buy him maccas and she has two beautiful kids. He doesn't...
helenuhl
Xper 5 Age: 50 Can anyone decode these mixed signals?
I started hanging out with this guy about 2 months ago, we have mutual friends and we all started hanging out together. We hung out on our own as well and I felt really comfortable with him and the attraction was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Covid19 how this Prepper was ready for it.
I grew up in a Prepper home and my father tried to prep for most eventualities which came good during some extreme weather and natural catastrophes. I have my own house and I prepped just like my Daddy taught me. I'm a...
American_Centurion
Xper 5 Age: 34 Had a minor car accident. My guy said I should have called him. Did he just say it out of courtesy or did he really care?
Was texting with my guy who lives a 40 min drive away. Yesterday I was in a minor car accident out in the middle of nowhere, and had to get my car towed. I wasn't injured. It did occur to me to call my guy, but I thought...
Anonymous
(30-35) Commitment in an unlabelled relationship. Is it possible?
I’ll be honest, when I met my man, and we agreed to not being in a relationship but seeing where it goes and having fun along the way, I thought that this arrangement might last a few months and we would either decide it...
AnberlinCanucks
Xper 6 Age: 40 