I am not saying that, but if someone approaches you in a nice way don't just automatically assume a guy is out to get you in a sexual way right away because that is a form of stereotyping. Just like people stereotype in racial ways that Chinese people can't drive, Jews are cheap, Muslims are terrorists, Black people are thugs in gangs, Mexicans deal with drugs or other derogative hurtful comments. As a guy I get this idea there is some much bitter, angry, resentful sexist unwarranted behaviour. I can't speak on behalf of all guys but I know girls in their teens and 20s want to consider those years there "wild years" and those years might be very slutty. But I believe people can change and I don't want to classify every girl by her past and I would want girls to be the same way with guys. Girls/women, understand something, not all of us guys/men are after you for sex. Some of us genuinely do want to date you, go out with you, possibly get married one day where we can also hold down a career and pursue others.
Girls, Why do you gals get offended if guys approaches you even if it's in a genuine way?

I am not saying that, but if someone approaches you in a nice way don't just automatically assume a guy is out to get you in a sexual way right away because that is a form of stereotyping. Just like people stereotype in racial ways that Chinese people can't drive, Jews are cheap, Muslims are terrorists, Black people are thugs in gangs, Mexicans deal with drugs or other derogative hurtful comments. As a guy I get this idea there is some much bitter, angry, resentful sexist unwarranted behaviour. I can't speak on behalf of all guys but I know girls in their teens and 20s want to consider those years there "wild years" and those years might be very slutty. But I believe people can change and I don't want to classify every girl by her past and I would want girls to be the same way with guys. Girls/women, understand something, not all of us guys/men are after you for sex. Some of us genuinely do want to date you, go out with you, possibly get married one day where we can also hold down a career and pursue others.
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