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She got cheated on by her fiance in 2017. She actually caught them sleeping (with clothes on) on the couch. It was her house, which she inheritated from her late father.

This is what she told me she did:
- Take several pictures of them (asleep) with her cell
- Put the ring on the table with a ''Jenna was here'' note and the date
- Spent a couple days in the motel and ignored his calls
- Spread the pictures on fb and told everyone
- Lied to lie about taking him back if he bought a new couch, table and bed... he did and she still dumped him

My friend explained she got that idea from a couple guys that caught their girlfriend or fiancee with another man. She likes how sometimes men can be creative instead of acting violent so she incorporated it in her case. She was obviously hurt but like them, decided not to do anything stupid. Still... is she too calm for a woman?

I've known my BFF since middle school. We are inseparable and have done everything together. We even had a little lesbian phase thing going on and still make out and sleep together sometimes (I've cheated on people with her but she's the constant in my life). She's been my best friend and sometimes my only friend because I'm super fucked up for a few reasons. One of those reasons is her dad. He started having sex with me before freshman year all the way through high school and it wasn't always consensual. I can never find the right way or right time to talk to her about this, ask her if he did anything to her, or explain what I went through and why I was sometimes difficult to be around. Its hard to go on a pleasant date with somebody 10 minutes after their daddy just made you deep-throat him. He is dead now so its not like I can send him to jail or make him pay, I don't believe in Hell, I can only ruin his memory for his family members which hurts them not him.

I once dated a Mexican guy (he was 25 at the time) who explained that even though some parts of Mexico can still be a Machista (chauvinism) culture, there are female cheaters too. He tried his best to be the decent husband any woman would want. He gave his wife anything, took her on trips and remained a hardworking, conservative, faithful guy. He didn't know what he did wrong to get cheated like that.

Yet, she still cheated with his former best friend. It ended in him punching the hell out of his friend and throwing all her clothes and stuff outside. So some women still over there too. That was a cheating Mexican wife. Are you surprised?