Search Results: how to talk to shy guys fear

Will I appear like some stalker?

Hi! First, I'm Swedish so sorry if my English isn't so great. My term just ended and it's summer now. I went to 4 different classes and it was different people in all of them (but that's not important). There was one guy...

Fancy_pants

Xper 3 Age: 34

How Do I Gain Some Confidence Around Guys and Life In General?

I've never had a boyfriend or dated b4 in all my 21 yrs. I've been approached maybe all of 4 times that I remember (not including at work) but usually guys just glance or stare. I figure something's wrong with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I talk to a shy crush?

I'm starting to really fall for this shy guy but every time I try to talk to him: A> I get really nervous B> my friends interfere Or C> I fear that I might scare him away. He is a year older than I am and I met him...

feelinglikechilling

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Guys: Why do you always assume a girl likes you just because she's nice?

I have a friend who thinks she's not pretty at all, and doesn't listen to me when I tell her she is and she has this problem with guys: When she is nice to them because they do something for her like giving her a pencil...

Anonymous

(30-35)

True or False, If a Girl Asks Out a Guy?

It usually means she likes him more than he likes her. If he doesn’t like her that much, but she’s cute or whatever, a guy will feel tempted to take advantage of her, string her along, use her for sex, etc? I ask...

Shinbun

Xper 6 Age: 35

How has your dating life been?

I gotta admit I have had a bitty sh*tty dating life. I grew up with a very smart but a wuzz for a father not a good male figure I must admit and a scary mother as she used to beat me up and scream at me, in which I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, What should I do? I see him in an hour?

I got up enough courage to tell the guy I like how I felt Sunday. I said that I didn't want to freak him out, but I kind of liked him. He smiled and said that it was cool, and that he didn't want to be rude, but he just...

MissCelia

Xper 3 Age: 33

Should I speak to him more? Could he like me, or was that his was of saying no to get out of the situation?

. I got up enough courage to tell him how I felt Sunday. I said that I didn't want to freak him out, but I kind of liked him. He smiled and said that it was cool, and that he didn't want to be rude, but he just had ended...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I tell if a guy likes me or not?

Hey! So I am a junior in high school, and there is this guy who is a Freshman in college who I have been texting lately. We both have gone to the same church since before I can remember, and I have had a crush on him...

TheDarkSaint777

Xper 5 Age: 32

Lost ability to hold a conversation.

Basically there is this girl I fancy, but she seems sorta shy/reserved. I don't know maybe she just isn't interested but I just want to know if she is being shy or genuinely not bothered. But for that I have to hold...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't talk around him unless my friends are there...HELP!

Last night when we talked he waited till my friends had left the table and came over. He started the conversation with "how you doing?" I respond and asked the same. He was standing kinda beside me and leaned down when I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What can I do if I am a shy guy and I guess I almost have a phobia of talking to girls?

I fear girls basically and the problem is I really really want a girlfriend. I am too shy to talk to a girl though and I mean I guess I am OK if a girl will talk to me but I can't approach her ever. I guess what can I do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How do I get him to open up? He has very little experience with girls. I like him though! He's a cool guy. HELP!

I need some opinions on what to do with this really great guy that I recently started dating. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 month. When I met him it was an incredibly comfortable & safe feeling....

inthecityre

Xper 5 Age: 42

Is it weird that I don't make any moves?

I absolutely despise guys that throw themselves onto a girl, whether its just to get a kiss or something more. I respect people, women in this case, so much that I feel like approaching them first is disrespectful. I...

iamspugeddy

Xper 4 Age: 34

Meeting a guy abroad and then probably never seeing him again...is it worth it?

I am temporarily working (in Wales) right now and I'm staying with my aunt and uncle. There are always people inside the house who are busy fixing it because it's brand new. I don't really talk to them and they don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it weird to say "hi" to a guy you somewhat know?

Is it weird to say hi to a guy you somewhat know? Well the thing is I have never said hi to him because I’m kind of shy. I don’t know much about him personally but I like to say high and be friends at least. He is my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

If he's obviously not interested anymore by him not talking to me then why does he still look at me? What is up with this boy?

Last Valentine's day, this one boy from my school messaged me on facebook. I have seen him around school before, but I never really got to know him. However, we messaged each and other from that day back and forth...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Is it my looks or personality?

I'm 22, and I'm a lifetime single. ("Hi ringlets02".. an aa reference.. just jokes... maybe it's my corny jokes...) I honestly scare guys away and I don't know why. All my girl friends, older women, etc. say I'm pretty,...

ringlets02

Xper 3 Age: 38