Search Results: silly or serious guys

Vitiligo is a skin condition in which some areas of the skin are lighter than others. I have vitiligo on my shoulders and on my, well.. groin area. It makes me very reluctant from dating girls because I know that if a girl rejected me because of it, I just don't think I could recover from that. I know it is cowardly but it scares me quite a lot. I am trying to get over it. So because of this, anytime a girl wants to go further, I stop her.

How exactly do you go about telling someone that you have vitiligo? I want a serious relationship but at the same time, I am 19, I want to have some fun and I don't want this stupid thing to get in the way of ant of that. I have been on a couple of first dates where the girls want to jump straight into bed, if that is the case what do I say? Just say nothing? A quick side note right before we get into bed? How would you react if someone told you?

Ultimately, I guess I am just looking for some opinions as to what a girl would think if I told her as well as how and when would be the best time to tell her.

The poll may seem a little silly but as I said I want to find the right girl but if along the way there are girls who just want sex, then I wouldn't mind pursuing that and I wouldn't mind knowing what they think prior to doing it. For the 'would/wouldn't deter me' part assume that you had already decided that you were going to sleep with me/the guy. Lol.

This image isn't me (obviously) but the girl in the picture has a similar skin tone to me, so it looks similar to this.

rium.org/.../vitiligo.jpg

I consider myself to be pretty mature yet very childlike. It is not as though i am trying to be childish but I always feel so happy and active.

In groups, i am very silly and always bring joy and laughter.
However if there is only two of us, be it male or female, i will tone down and be more serious.

So I am wondering if my personality actually makes me less attractive to women as they might find be less mysterious and immature.

Assume that you're already attracted to this person, here's the personality:

I'm a nice guy. I like to help people, but mostly because it makes my ego feel good.

I'm a listener and can kiss ass or provide healthy criticism depending on what you wish.

I'm a joker and have a bit of a dark humor. I like making people laugh, usually by mocking silly moments in my own life. I also laugh at the stupidest things.

I try to be friendly with everyone and back off when my presence is not desired.

I speak multiple languages, and like to travel when I'm not broke. I'm also the kind of guy to go to the beach, go hiking, go look at forts and check out museums.

I'm a bit of a smart ass, but I tone it down for serious matters.

I'm not religious, but I can accept some religion in my life if it makes my partner happy.

I'm in college right now studying to hopefully get a high paying job in the medical/psychology field.

I love arguing, but not for the sake of pissing off people, rather to have a healthy debate on matters.

I practically listen to every music genre except country or death metal.

So anyways, what would rate my personslity out of 10.

1-4 = Does not appeal to me
5-7 = Some good and bad, but there's hope
8-10 = I dig it :p