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Alright so I'm from up North and I'm so use to associating and having real cool regular white friends, Mexican friends, black friends you name it even seeing diversity in relationships and don't deal with racism up north. We see no color for real. Now I live down south and my boyfriend is straight from the country. He's white and of course they call each other rednecks. He's a manly man, he has a accent, dress/ look and act like a country white boy. Now here I am this northern black girl from Chicago who don't have an accent and my skin is not white. We get stared down, followed, weird looks and its crazy. It's actually kind of scary because people really hate and it's KKK here and I only see that stuff in movies. If you are from down south please tell me why I needs to hear it from an actual person who would stars too. Like its ridiculous. It drives me nuts because they mistreat us too. Because I'm with a white guy. Wtf? Black guys try to talk shit here. Like dude I'm not even from your home so shut it up. Some white people see that and actually feel comfortable talking to me when they see that I'm not from here and see that my boyfriend is white. Same with him vice versa with the black people here. I don't know what type of black people they are use to hear but that's sad in general. Same for whites.

I love my boyfriend and I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him on an emotional level but, he's the worst ever in bed.

I have an friends with benefits that was amazing in bed but, there is really no chance for us (he doesn't want to have a serious relationship until he's old as molasses and is at the top of his rank in the Air Force blah blah blah plus, the whole his parents are racists rednecks thing that I don't feel like dealing with)

I know my choice but, I just wanted to know what other people would choose.