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At my boyfriends work he was caught in a car with a manager there... A different manager claims to have seen them, and believes they were having sex or something. She was apparently upset and disgusted all day, because everyone at work knows me and him are dating, even though I stopped working there 3 months ago.

I don't know the manager who he was messing with. She's new.

According to the friend that told me, his friends also said, "He can't possibly have a girlfriend with how much he does".

I know, rumors and hearsay. however I trust the manager who said she saw him, and the friend who told me that she saw him. He also did not message me at all yesterday, and I texted him 4 times, just casual things. Hey, how's it going, do you want to go to a concert in a few weeks with me? Completely ignored me.

I suspected him of cheated before, but I believed it when he said he wasn't cheating when I asked, because he was cheated on in his last relationship, and the ex got pregnant by his best friend. I thought that because he knew how it felt to be cheated on, that he wouldn't cheat.

There's really not any room for false accusations here is there? Because everything my friend says is lining up to be true, with him not messaging me. Ignoring me some days and telling me he loves me the next. I just texted him saying it was over.. but is there any way it might be false? anyone been in a similar situation?

Today, my boyfriend (of 1.5 years) texted me saying "i need to talk to u about something"
So I called him and this was our conversation:
Him - honestly, i dont feel comfortable with us anymore
Me - what do u mean?
Him - I dont trust u anymore
Me - why?
Him - u went through my phone when I was sleeping, you called another guy up when u were drunk, u lock ur facebook messenger app and your instagram. Thats a red flag. And u texted another guy few weeks ago but u hid it from me. When i asked to see the messages, you didn't let me see it. That means you're hiding stuff from me. I dont like that
Me - Im not cheating on u
Him - I know ur not cheating on me but ur hiding stuff from me. Even when someone messages u, u hide your phone away from me
Me - Im a private person
Him - U know all my passwords. I dont hide stuff from u. When i saw u locked ur messenger and instagram, I keep thinking ur hiding stuff from me. I dont like that. Next time im going through ur phone and see those messages from that guy u didn't let me see last time. If u dont, we are done. Thats not right. U dont keep things from ur partner. I dont like playing games.
Me - yeah ok u can see all my messages
Him - secondly, u don't talk much. It bothers me. Ur so quiet. Ur not lively. I want to be with someone who talks more. I know this is how u are and I can't change u. I just don't know why I'm still with u.
Me - yeah ok so what u wanna do? Are we still together? U dont see future with me?
Him - we are still together but yeh i dont see u as wife material unless you change your ways. Not hiding shit from me and talk more. One wrong thing u do again like calling another guy up or messaging other guys, we are done. I want to see us in the future but right now I can't. Im forcing myself to still be with u because Im hoping u can change ur ways and hoping u make more effort and hoping u can be more mature
If he doesn't wanna be with me anymore, why wouldn't he just leave me then?
by the way im 22 and he's 27