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Hi there i’m sophie and my sister is fleur. we’re just sharing this account lol.

Fleur:

Right so my friends keep telling me different things about my friend. and i’m getting mixed feelings. he’s quite shy so he might not just be telling anyone how he actually feels but i’m not sure lol.

- He told person A that he wouldn’t say no if i asked him

- told person B that he liked me as a friend

-When someone asked him hypothetically does he like me he said yes

-He is constantly flirty teasing me about stuff

-He is always buying me icecream or paying for days out.

- he was my prom date

- apparently on a school trip he was asked by a couple of people about me and he said just friends.

yeah so i’m not sure. kinda mixed reactions huh? Anywayyyy anyone who can help me figure this out then help😭😭😭😭

I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a concert. I went by myself. His friends approached me and we ended up hanging out for the night. He flirted but never made a move. His one friend was drunk and got my number before I left for the night. Next day, his friend asked me out, I politely declined, explaining I had chickened out from asking the guy I was interested in for his number. The friend said the guy heard me telling another guy I had a boyfriend (I don’t, I do this when I’m out alone to easily reject guys). The friend also sent me the guys number and said he thought I should text him. I did. We texted everyday for a week and he called me 3 or 4 times to chat. First time he called he said he was not a good texter and preferred calling (if I was good with that). Throughout the week we got to know each other a bit. He made sure I knew he lives a few hours away (he is moving soon tho), and that he is 9 years older than me. The last call we had was ~ half an hour and went really well. He teased me and called me nicknames, said his friends thought I was really cool, and mentioned different things we could do together. He told me he was going on a trip that weekend and at a music festival the following weekend so he would be super busy. He told me he was just a call away before we hung up.
I texted him the next morning responding to something he sent the night before. I asked a question about something we discussed on the call and he never responded to the text. A week after our last call, I had not heard from him so I texted again. I said I might be able to make time if he wanted call me again sometime that week. I figured I was likely getting ghosted, so I mentioned if he wasn’t feeling it that I understood and it would be no hard feelings. He texted back a couple days later adamantly saying he definitely wanted to keep talking. He never called though, and that was about 5 days ago now. Should I consider myself ghosted? If not, is it likely he’s just not very interested?