I’ve been very confused about this topic for a couple weeks now.
So starting from how I met him. I was introduced by this guys year ago by his ex and ever since I’ve never actually talked him but we would say hi whenever we saw eachother. Skipping forward to now I work with him now but we’re both in different departments in retail.
I started catching feelings for him honestly right when I laid eyes on him. I don't know why but it just felt right I haven’t actually liked a guy for a long time and I just got out of a toxic relationship. Ever since I noticed that I couldn’t get him out of my mind and I would constantly think negatively and positively about this whole crush. I genuinely thought he didn’t like me until I noticed these signs.
1. Our coworkers would directly tease him when I’m around. And that was one of the biggest signs cause I would barely talk to some of them but they would be like. “Go say bye to your girl” or “yeah dude where’s her stuff” even though I was asking a completely different person but they would be around to tease him you know?
2. He would ALWAYS look at me. Whenever he’s nearby or walking past me I always catch him looking at me.
BUT here’s the confusing part
1. He BARELY talks to me. And it rlly bothers me cause I would try to start conversation he would never look at me or even respond with a full answer.
2. He didn’t follow me back on ig! I tried getting advice for this but other people thought this was weird as well.
I tried to ignore him today at work to see if he notices. He ended up coming to the front where I usually am and kinda hung around me for a few min with his coworker. I don't know guys I feel like I’m overthinking this situation but there’s so many clear and unclear signs it’s really messing with me.
So starting from how I met him. I was introduced by this guys year ago by his ex and ever since I’ve never actually talked him but we would say hi whenever we saw eachother. Skipping forward to now I work with him now but we’re both in different departments in retail.
I started catching feelings for him honestly right when I laid eyes on him. I don't know why but it just felt right I haven’t actually liked a guy for a long time and I just got out of a toxic relationship. Ever since I noticed that I couldn’t get him out of my mind and I would constantly think negatively and positively about this whole crush. I genuinely thought he didn’t like me until I noticed these signs.
1. Our coworkers would directly tease him when I’m around. And that was one of the biggest signs cause I would barely talk to some of them but they would be like. “Go say bye to your girl” or “yeah dude where’s her stuff” even though I was asking a completely different person but they would be around to tease him you know?
2. He would ALWAYS look at me. Whenever he’s nearby or walking past me I always catch him looking at me.
BUT here’s the confusing part
1. He BARELY talks to me. And it rlly bothers me cause I would try to start conversation he would never look at me or even respond with a full answer.
2. He didn’t follow me back on ig! I tried getting advice for this but other people thought this was weird as well.
I tried to ignore him today at work to see if he notices. He ended up coming to the front where I usually am and kinda hung around me for a few min with his coworker. I don't know guys I feel like I’m overthinking this situation but there’s so many clear and unclear signs it’s really messing with me.
