So, I met this guy on a dating app. I was feeling like shit one night and he ended up calling me out of nowhere, we talked about our families and backgrounds for a bit. He was 40 min away with his friends at a bar. Around 1 AM he asked if I was going to stay up, and I said I would, so his next move was to pick me up and 2 AM.
We got something to eat, and on the way back to his car he asked if he could hold my hand and touch me. Then he said he wanted to take me to the monuments, so I agreed. When we were walking, he'd flirt, say dumb sh*t, we'd laugh and tease, and then we sat down. He leaned in for a kiss and I reciprocated.
It got a little hot and heavy the more we kissed. He asked if he could take me back to his place and I refused. So, we're in this parking lot, making out, talking. He's bringing up stuff like kids and how he sees having children with me. How he wouldn't mind if I got pregnant, that he had a good salary. He's 23, I'm 21.
He repeated how much he wanted me to just be his and how I would be "his girl". I never brought that up.
He kept trying for more and tried to take me back again. I refused. He took me back to my place at 5 AM and we chatted and kissed for another 40 mins. He took my hand and kissed it before I went inside, asked if he could come in, but I said no.
In the morning, his texts were only sexual. Told me how obsessed he was with me. How I was "his girl". And throughout the day, I was getting annoyed. I called him. Told him to stop bullsh*tting and just let me know what he wanted. He said he just got out of college, his work was demanding, etc. Told me he didn't want a relationship.
He ended the conversation by basically leaving the door open. Told me I could still text him if I ever needed anything. I told him that he could come to me and that I wouldn't chase. The problem is I'm really craving him, and as much as I want to reach out to him, I don't know how he'd react.
I don't know what to do in this situation.
We got something to eat, and on the way back to his car he asked if he could hold my hand and touch me. Then he said he wanted to take me to the monuments, so I agreed. When we were walking, he'd flirt, say dumb sh*t, we'd laugh and tease, and then we sat down. He leaned in for a kiss and I reciprocated.
It got a little hot and heavy the more we kissed. He asked if he could take me back to his place and I refused. So, we're in this parking lot, making out, talking. He's bringing up stuff like kids and how he sees having children with me. How he wouldn't mind if I got pregnant, that he had a good salary. He's 23, I'm 21.
He repeated how much he wanted me to just be his and how I would be "his girl". I never brought that up.
He kept trying for more and tried to take me back again. I refused. He took me back to my place at 5 AM and we chatted and kissed for another 40 mins. He took my hand and kissed it before I went inside, asked if he could come in, but I said no.
In the morning, his texts were only sexual. Told me how obsessed he was with me. How I was "his girl". And throughout the day, I was getting annoyed. I called him. Told him to stop bullsh*tting and just let me know what he wanted. He said he just got out of college, his work was demanding, etc. Told me he didn't want a relationship.
He ended the conversation by basically leaving the door open. Told me I could still text him if I ever needed anything. I told him that he could come to me and that I wouldn't chase. The problem is I'm really craving him, and as much as I want to reach out to him, I don't know how he'd react.
I don't know what to do in this situation.
