So met this guy over a week ago and he gave me his number said he wanted to see me again and hoped that he would hear from me. That evening I texted him and said it was nice meeting you. He had said back it was great meeting you too maybe there will be a time and place we can meet again. I told him I would really like that. Four days later, I texted him and asked if he would like to grab a cup of coffee with me. He texted back right away and said he would have coffee with me anytime. So we went on a coffee date and he was a real gentleman open the door for me paid for my coffee and we ended up talking for 3 hours. He walked me to my car afterwards, gave me a hug, and told me I have beautiful eyes and he got shy after saying that and told me to text him anytime to hang out again. He texted me 15 minutes after the date and we texted back-and-forth for the rest of that evening like cute flirting. Two days later, I texted him and asked if he wanted to go for a walk together in our neighborhood. He texted back right away and said he was heading up to the mountains to go snowboarding with his friends that he don’t know what time he would need to be home, but that he would let me know if he can. He also included a picture of the snow. I texted him back and said wow looks like a lot of snow up there so glad you got to go to the mountains with your friends! Yeah if not, that’s cool. Maybe we can go for a walk tomorrow if I don’t get called into work. He never responded back. It’s the next day now I’m wondering should I text him and ask how his day was yesterday with his friends? Or should I just leave him alone?
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Should I reach out to him?
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The majority of what I read here is “I reached out”, and my advice right now is to not create a pattern of not only chasing but always initiating conversations/hangouts. Effort made should always be mutual, and at this point it sounds like you’re doing all the work. Let him reach out and find another way to occupy your time. I would actually let him reach out first another time after that, just to get an idea of his intentions and how well he does with communication.
My bad, you said a lot of “I texted him”.
I still did most of the reaching out because he is the shy type. He doesn’t have much game when it comes to dating, but he is a sweet and nice guy.
Don’t use shyness as an excuse, let him show you his true character, because it’s only been a few days and you don’t know him like that. Don’t set him on a pedestal either, your time and presence in someone’s life is just as valuable, treat yourself like the prize as well.
Also, do not form attachments to where you’re worried he will lose interest right now. It’s only been a handful of days, lower your expectations so that you can navigate this situation smartly.
I think you are ok just let it be for a day or two. I'm sure he will respond when he can.
Leave him alone don't be desperate
Do you think he lost interest in me?
Nope he just busy with his friend..
But don't text him if he likes you he will text you as of now you're not his priority