So my ex and I broke up a year ago when he moved across the country for a new job. We tried to make it work, but sadly life got in the way, but there was still a lot of love there. I hurt him really bad after, and for a long time he wouldn't even talk to me.
We got back together over the Christmas holidays, but we were both dealing with a lot of stress and financial issues, so we never actually saw each other. Also, he was still hurt about past issues and would go hot and cold, until we broke it off the end of January.
He found a very lucrative job and he works from home and makes his own hours, so he started coming back home to visit family. During the last visit, he and I met up. We were both very emotional and we ended up spending the night together right before his trip back home. I found out he's moving back home in a month and he said he'd like to see me again when he gets back, I agreed. He left that morning.
It's been a week and a half and we haven't spoken since and my mind is all over the place. I noticed about four days ago he unblocked me on Facebook and Messenger -- he used to have me blocked since he moved back in May, so this is big LOL.
We kind of left things off as we'll see each other when he's back, but the anticipation is killing me, but also, he hasn't actually reached out.
Should I wait the four weeks and tough it out, or should I reach out?
We got back together over the Christmas holidays, but we were both dealing with a lot of stress and financial issues, so we never actually saw each other. Also, he was still hurt about past issues and would go hot and cold, until we broke it off the end of January.
He found a very lucrative job and he works from home and makes his own hours, so he started coming back home to visit family. During the last visit, he and I met up. We were both very emotional and we ended up spending the night together right before his trip back home. I found out he's moving back home in a month and he said he'd like to see me again when he gets back, I agreed. He left that morning.
It's been a week and a half and we haven't spoken since and my mind is all over the place. I noticed about four days ago he unblocked me on Facebook and Messenger -- he used to have me blocked since he moved back in May, so this is big LOL.
We kind of left things off as we'll see each other when he's back, but the anticipation is killing me, but also, he hasn't actually reached out.
Should I wait the four weeks and tough it out, or should I reach out?
