This low-key messy. This guy starts off being really intense teasing me n wanting to do sexual stuff. I explain I prefer serious things, getting to know people, n that I get attached if I get involved, so I'm not gonna. But, he keeps going like "let's do this first then talk about love." (Which I'll never do n think its not cool)
He dms me multiple times daily now (its been a month). It can range from random things/questions (not much of depth) to him hitting on me. if im in the group chat he mostly just bothers/teases me even if im speaking to other people. He insists I'm his type by liking the same things and being cute. (which i find disingenuous)
The other day he was trying to say he wanted me to admit I wanted him to get me and then list things I like about him. I just did a list or whatever calling him funny, confident, admired his persistence, and that he's unique with good taste in games/etc. Seemed happy about it.
I feel wary about him bc I don't know much about him and he's not sharing much/interacting outside text, but wants a lot from me. I'm cautious and take time to open up to others.
He mentions sending risky texts with a girl later. He says he was jk with her and it escalated. And he needed help/a distraction bc they're just friends. I'm like if its going well then why's he gotta tell me. Then he tells me his mission failed with her.
And this becomes a convo about risk taking/him flirting and I explain I want love not sex. "U never take risks. Just admit u want a real strong man to care for you/dominate you. it's annoyingly obvious. I call you baby bc I think ur cute. U bend to my whims. Understand?"
But I'm too much of a brat sub and think I should have a reason to bend to said whims, so I'm just like no lol.
I think he's just frustrated he's not getting his way. But, I can't give myself to someone who's so pressed for sex and doesn't wanna be in depth, call, or game together y'know? I wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing with my boundaries.
He dms me multiple times daily now (its been a month). It can range from random things/questions (not much of depth) to him hitting on me. if im in the group chat he mostly just bothers/teases me even if im speaking to other people. He insists I'm his type by liking the same things and being cute. (which i find disingenuous)
The other day he was trying to say he wanted me to admit I wanted him to get me and then list things I like about him. I just did a list or whatever calling him funny, confident, admired his persistence, and that he's unique with good taste in games/etc. Seemed happy about it.
I feel wary about him bc I don't know much about him and he's not sharing much/interacting outside text, but wants a lot from me. I'm cautious and take time to open up to others.
He mentions sending risky texts with a girl later. He says he was jk with her and it escalated. And he needed help/a distraction bc they're just friends. I'm like if its going well then why's he gotta tell me. Then he tells me his mission failed with her.
And this becomes a convo about risk taking/him flirting and I explain I want love not sex. "U never take risks. Just admit u want a real strong man to care for you/dominate you. it's annoyingly obvious. I call you baby bc I think ur cute. U bend to my whims. Understand?"
But I'm too much of a brat sub and think I should have a reason to bend to said whims, so I'm just like no lol.
I think he's just frustrated he's not getting his way. But, I can't give myself to someone who's so pressed for sex and doesn't wanna be in depth, call, or game together y'know? I wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing with my boundaries.
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