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Search Results: self destructive behavior feelings
What does one do after being hurt too many times?
Romantically speaking. I have been hurt so many times already by different guys in my life. I am now so scared of falling for someone again. And trust me, I’ve been trying with this one guy. He seems ideal in every...
Grace_Rdz
Yoda Age: 27 What are 10 things you think a true lover would do?
I have made up a list of 10 things I feel my best love match HAS to do for me to feel loved. I have left out some generic answers in favor of those that are different from the normal. 1. A person who loves you won't...
ObviouslyBored
Xper 6 Age: 35 Discouraging Emotional People
This is somewhat of a follow-up to a previous MyTake I attempted entitled, " Unemotional is Strong, Emotional is Weak ". https://www.girlsaskguys.com/guys-behavior/a35010-emotional-is-weak-unemotional-is-strong One...
ak666
Editor Age: 45 Self-Awareness, Self-Discipline, Better Outcomes
The key to achieving better outcomes comes from calmly asking ourselves how we can most effectively make things better , of applying level-headed thought to choose the best course of action. This is rather stating the...
ak666
Editor Age: 45 On What You Have To Lose NOT Approaching Her
-Your Ego Your ego is one of those friends who pretends to be cool with you and looking out for you but is secretly very jealous of you and is always throwing little seeds of doubt in your head disguised as carrying...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Why So Many Men Hate Women, And How Psychology Explains It
There's been a new wave of men's behavior that's taken over the internet in the past couple years and seems to only be growing: hating women . That trend is most strongly diffused among movements such as MGTOW and...
Anonymous
(25-29) What I'm Looking For in a Potential Girlfriend
I love girls ♥ but there are many different and unique types of girls. Some of them I like more, some of them less and some of them not at all. This Mytake is continued from my previous Mytake How I Turned From Being...
Unit1
Editor Age: 31 Why do I shut of my emotions and feelings when something is going wrong in my life?
I start going towards self destructive behavior like sleeping with multipul woman, drinking excessively and fighting. I don't want to be like that anymore. I want to learn towards healthy behavior when I'm hurt. Its just...
Anonymous
(30-35) A way to kick self harm's ass
Many people suffer from mental diseases, such as depression and anxiety, even both. They can cause people to self harm, physically or mentally. I used to burn, and I am trying to stop destorying myself mentally. Here's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Taking Baby Steps – Recovering from Serious Eating Disorders
Disclaimer: This myTake focuses primarily on anorexia and bulimia nervosa, however there will be a take devoted to binge eating disorders in the future after I complete an adequate amount of research on the subject. The...
Another post about the Friend Zone?
OK, So as a guy, i have had a lot of 1st hand experience of the friend zone and have come to a conclusion. most of you girls will disagree with this but hey ho. I understand that when you don't find a guy attractive,...
raelauk
Xper 4 Age: 43 January 2015 Horoscopes
Monthly Horoscope Readings: January, 2015 What does the Zodiac have in store for you this month? December was a great month for Leos and Sagittarius, but January is looking quite different. Things are a bit of a...
gagTake
Editor Age: 37 Does this happen to anyone else when they get their crush?
Evertime i have a huge crush, if i find out that the feelings are reciprocated, I stop having a crush on them. Does this happento anybody else, when yoh get the person of your dreams to like you, then that makes you not...
Anonymous
(36-45) I think I subconsciously sabotaged my relationship? How to fix what's broken?
I am still trying to correct some of my bad habits that caused the breakdown of my LDR. I actually had a breakdown after 1 year into it because I was unemployed, my bf didn't have finances to meet me (cross-continental),...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you stop yourself when you're feeling self destructive?
When you feel like you are about to slip over the edge.. and sabotage yourself.. or take part in some self-destructive behavior , how do you catch and stop yourself?
Betwyn
Guru Age: 35 Why do people encourage girls with self destructive behaviors?
there's a girl I used to be friends with who went downhill a few years ago. she refused my help so I distanced myself from her but still keep an eye on her to make sure she's OK. I've noticed people keep encouraging her...
littlemissthing
Xper 5 Age: 31 Caretaking Prevents Nice Guys From Getting Their Needs Met
One of the most common ways Nice Guys use covert contracts to try to meet their needs is through caretaking. Nice Guys believe their caretaking is fundamentally loving and is one of the things that makes them good...
Nomoremrniceguy
Xper 3 Age: 39 Why does my ex contact me out of the blue, only to tell me about all of his troubles?
I have begun to see a pattern develop: every summer, my ex (we dated for 8 mos) contacts me out of nowhere, becomes instantly free to see me, we hang out and before I know it, he is gone. Of course after we broke up (I...
Anonymous
(36-45) I feel weird texting her
I haven't contacted or seen this girl in more than half a year. We've one on a couple dates, but she didn't seem too into it, as she began to come up with excuses to not get together. She never told me outright that she...
Anonymous
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