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I am a good-looking guy, healthy, and muscular. But I am a bit insecure about the topic but I don't want you to sugarcoat it as a much more direct approach gives a clear answer with which I can make my future decisions accordingly. So the question is, is (height) critical or is it something that is preferred, (I understand the evolutionary derivation of it) or is it like boobs? It tends to have its own attraction to it but I haven't seen a girl being declined or ignored for being flat chested or no boobs or at least an attractive girl/person given no attention for the lack of the quality or is it like the face (the intention is not to judge because I think most if not all people who take good care of themselves, look healthy/exercise look good, and I am pretty sure of that) where it plays a deciding factor for most blokes... also I think/feel like my height is more nutrition restricted than say geneticallyrestricted (I am the studious kind, you can also call it passionate extremist anyways, I would often miss 2-3 or even all meals a day, for like 2 years, although my father is not much taller. I'm 18 btw) is there any way to recover the height as I am slowly putting my body back on normal diet and exercise (bones felt weakened and stuff)
Also I would just like to throw in a little extra question, how does someone talk on online dating sites, I am a pretty straight forward person, so say a conversation has been started and are we talk about something, it's interesting then the topic is closed. I can't transition to the next topic unless it's initiated by the other person, maybe I just don't expect an extraordinary or an out of the ordinary answer or/and just am not curious enough, but I want to be, I genuinely do, but I can't. There's no easy way that I see to transition between topics I know (I am smart in spots and I like to stay around those spots)
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Also, this is a repost as I unwisely posted it when majority of users were asleep...

I am a good-looking guy, healthy, and muscular. But I am a bit insecure about the topic but I don't want you to sugarcoat it as a much more direct approach gives a clear answer with which I can make my future decisions accordingly. So the question is it (height) critical or is it something that is preferred, (I understand the evolutionary derivation of it) is it like boobs? It tends to have its own attraction to it but I haven't seen a girl being declined or ignored for being flat chested or no boobs or at least an attractive girl/person given no attention for the lack of the quality or is it like the face (the intention is not to judge because I think most if not all people who take good care of themselves, look healthy/exercise look good, and I am pretty sure of that) where it plays a deciding factor for most blokes... also I think/feel like mh height is more nutrition restricted than say genetically restriction restricted (I am the studious kind, you can also call it passionate extremist anyways, I would often miss 2-3 or even all meals a day, for like 2 years, although my father is not much taller. I'm 18 btw) is there any way to recover the height as I am slowly putting my body back on normal diet and exercise (bones felt weakened and stuff)
Also I would just like to throw in a little extra question, how does someone talk on online dating sites, I am a pretty straight forward person, so say a conversation has been started and are we talk about something, it's interesting then the topic is closed. I can't transition to the next topic unless it's initiated by the other person, maybe I just don't expect an extraordinary or an out of the ordinary answer or/and just am not curious enough, but I want to be, I genuinely do but I can't. There's no easy way that I see to transition between topics I know (I am smart in spots and I like to stay around those spots)

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1. 90% of the questions and answers are generalizations. They don't specify a type a person, a specific scenario, or even enough details to give an accurate analysis. Also, they are phrased as if all or most of a gender is the same, which is far from the truth. If people were giving honest answers it would almost always be "it depends."

2. Most of the answers you get will not be from your targeted type of mate. For example, say you want a new age girl but instead you get an opinion from a cheerleader. Or you want advice about approaching a good looking girl but instead get advice from an ugly girl. You are getting irrelevant advice without knowing it.

3. The polls on this site aren't even an accurate representation of the people on this site, much less the general population. For example, say you ask if guys like giving girls flowers. Guys that like giving girls flowers are more likely to click the question and answer yes while guys that don't will ignore the question, making the poll results inaccurate and irrelevant.

4. Most of the people on this site are posers. They exaggerate their self-worth, pretend to speak for all of their gender, pretend to know things they don't, or are a completely fake profile to begin with. People don't want to hang out with them so they come on here and answer questions to feel important and pass time. Not exactly the person you want advice from.

5. The people that run the site can remove or promote anything they want which makes the site fundamentally biased. This tends to attract certain types of people while repelling other types. Instead of giving an accurate representation of the general population, you end up with an echo chamber of people that repeat and validate their same beliefs back to each other.