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I used to think that being hot means you're super confident and can get anyone, not quite, you know you're attractive and others want you, but rarely do you see really attractive people (Guys and girls alike) approaching someone they like, they get all the attention, they get approached but approaching seems very hard for them, for a good reason, when you know you're not like every other average guy/girl getting rejected will crush your self esteem, plus you never had to actually work hard to get attention.

Less attractive people and average ones viciously approach those they like, after 2 years of college, countless interactions with women and me approaching some here and there (mostly hot ones since as i mentioned the literally never initiate) i found out that unattractive girls have absolutly no problem approaching a guy, and i personally had my fair share of such girls giving me numbers and trying to date me, the hot ones while showed a lot of interest, stared at me often and even got compliments from them, never actually tried initiating anything with me or anyone for that matter, they just wait for things to happen.


maybe its just a theory but i feel that hot people are not good at approaching those they like while the average looking ones know if they never try to make it happen it will never happen, which to hot people is really irrelevant since they can easily find someone interested in them even theyre not hot.

Have you ever found people of a certain look unattractive early on in life but find them attractive later? Maybe you didn't like older people attractive at 1st but found them attractive later? Maybe you didn't find fat people attractive at 1st but found some fat people to a certain amount of body fat later on attractive?