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I’m a 26 year old black guy. I just met this girl who is Hispanic a few months ago. She’s 24, has a good character, not too materialistic, devout Christian, has a good job, and is financially savvy. We get along great and is showing some promising signs that we could have something special if we decided to get serious.

What’s holding me back is that I want to be with a black woman. Mostly because we will most likely relate in terms of how we feel about racism, politics, music, entertainment, etc. Plus, most of my celebrity crushes have been black. Lol

I haven’t been in a relationship in 3 years. I want to give this Hispanic girl a try, but at the same time I feel like I’d be settling. If you were in my shoes, would you date the Hispanic girl or wait for a black girl?

Some of my friends think it’s black men because of stereotypes: big penis, usually tall, athletic, good in bed.

Others think it’s white men, because black men are typically objectified and get married less often than white men do. White men stereotypically come from a better class, are “safer”, and have a higher net worth on average. White women and other races tend to go back to their own kind after dating black men in high school or college.

I think it’s white men, based on my experience. I have 2 friends that are software engineers; one white and one black. They’re both pretty average looking guys, equally as athletic. The black guy makes slightly more money because he got a new job, but he has a harder time dating. Their Bumble & Hinge profiles are similar, but the white guy gets twice as many matches and goes on at least one date every 2 weeks. The black guy is lucky if he has one date a month.

So ladies, what’s your type? If you don’t have a type, then what race do you think is the most sought after? Feel free to share why.