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I've been texting this girl for a few days now, and i finally asked her to meet up for some coffee.
The conversation went like this
me: Do you like coffee?
girl: I prefer iced coffee, over hot coffee.
me: We should meet up for some iced coffee then?
girl: And where would you like to meet?
me: How about a classic white girl spot, Starbucks?

I meant for the last message to come across as a joke, but would most people (women) interpret that to be sexist or rude? I honestly dont care about the outcome too much sice we dont really know each other, but mostly for future reference.

We have been co-workers for aout 5 years now. Friends for maybe half of that. Not super close and we don't usually get all deep in our conversations. I honestly never had a "thing" for her. Once in a while she may be wearing something that looked really hot, and I would notice.
She has a boyfriend. Actually, they are engaged. She told me back when it happened she felt kind of put on the spot and is not sure if she will actually go all the way and marry him. She loves him, but there are issues. About a year ago she started flirting heavy with me while drunk. I stopped her. Otherwise there is some sexual innuendo here and there, like most friends have. Until recently. She was home alone and wanted to hang out, which is not not common, but not unusual either. She wanted to have some drinks, eat something, watch some movies and talk. Everything went as usual. I went to bed in the guest room and fell asleep. About an hour passes and I wake up to someone getting into my bed. It was her. She snuggled up to me and I assumed she just didn't want to sleep alone, so I put my arm around her and started to go back to sleep. She took my hand and put it between her legs. One thing led to another and all lines were crossed. It actually was very good sex. Somehow I already knew my way around her body, like I had been with her 100 times before.
The next day I wake up and she is downstairs cooking breakfast and her boyfriend is home. He thanked me for keeping her company. I felt bad knowing what had happened. I never mentioned it, just went on like usual. A week passed and she brought it up. Ever since the sexual innuendo is off the charts. She finds ways to use it in everything we say. She is looking for excuses to have me over, like helping her fix stuff around the house. Today after work she texted me she bought me a gift (no idea what it is). Is she lining me up as a replacement? Or a fuck buddy to get her through her relationship? Or was it a one time mistake she feels bad for?

so back in jr high i met this cute girl on the bus (she was a grade below me) i know she liked me for obvious reasons like say goodbye to me across the whole bus so everone heard and other reasons but i never did ask her out and then of course 2 years latter in high school she becomes the head cheerleader and everone thinks she's hot and now she has a douchbag boy friend that isn't going to last i still got off ok though cause i made the baseball team and bat 4th (the power hitting spot) and start in left field and girls i never though i would have a chance with are looking at me but i still miss the old jr high girl that liked me for me and i liked for her and not becuse of what we are but becuase of who we were. I miss her a lot. Anways back in the day i used to be one of the best basketball players in the area but then i got out of shape and got cut from the jr high team and i dropped basketball then i started to miss the sport so I decied to play in a reck leauge and i met a point gaurd from a diiferent school that i used to be good friends with when we played on the same travel team a few years ago. I ended up do really well in the leauge and im in a lot better shape becuase of trainnig with baseball. in basketball im a forward and i know two of our forwards on the team one is a football player who is stronger than me but im just as tall and the other is weaker than me and im taller and better at basketball than him. only one small problem the forward that is stronger than me is good friends with that girls boyfriend and there's no way he'll get cut becuase he's the only one who can dunk (i can touch and hang on the rim) anyways what im asking is should i bother trying out for basketball as a junior that the coach has never seen and try to beat the odds and try to talk to that girl again or should i foucus on baseball where i have a good chance to play collage baseball and forget one of my favorte sports that i love and leave the girl in the past?