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Search Results: in the time of the butterflies
Should I give up and friendzone him?
We met online and we talked once in a while before meeting in real life (we met for the first time like a month ago and we saw each other 5 times). He initiated all the dates and he initiates most of the texts. We get...
Anonymous
(30-35) Weight does not have to bring you down!
Heavy words carry a heavy price That's a pretty good story but I wish it would be inspiring I think we could do something a little more realistic or at least without magic THIS IS A STORY AND NOT REAL LIFE I was at my...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 Could you kick some sense into me? I'm starting to have feelings for someone while my boyfriend is away on a 4 mo. mission (sp. ops)?
My boyfriend and I keep in touch as often as possible whenever he's on a mission and I honestly never even imagine myself getting swayed by anyone else while being with him. He's someone I see myself marrying. He's great...
dragonfruitA
Xper 7 Age: 31 Is it REALLY worth it to stay with someone after the honeymoon phase?
I’m asking this especially to people who’ve been married for many years or who’ve been in a relationship for a long time (10+ years). Is it REALLY worth it to actually go through all of that for one person? Even if your...
Anonymous
(25-29) What did she mean when she told him this?
My best male friend has been dating a girl for a while and she sent him this really long text message the other day as they’d had a few cross words. “I’ve absolutely loved the time I’ve spent with you. You’re one of...
Anonymous
(36-45) Trying to be funny and kind at the same time but it seems like I am failing to get people to like me as a person?
So a New Year resolution I made for myself is to be more sociable. I am currently getting very mix responses it seems. On one hand, I do get people's attention and my close friends are arguably closer to me. On the other...
Emptyheart
Xper 6 Age: 28 How do you know when you're falling in love?
Love seems to be experienced differently for each person. Some people get instant butterflies and for others, it takes some time and introspection for you to realise you have feelings for someone. What signs tell you that...
Hannah591
Editor Age: 31 Anyone have intercranial pressure?
I've been having some weird eye issues in my left eye such as white floaters when I look right, left eye gets 'foggy' often, etc. Eye doctor looked at my nerves and actually had the nurse verify a few times that the...
Anonymous
(36-45) What song (s) remind you of your crush?
Or songs where the lyrics seem to speak to you. Is there a specific lyric in the song that speaks to you the most? I'll go first. The song that really reminds me of my crush is Butterflies by Queen Naija. "You...
saucegoddess
Xper 5 Age: 25 15 Sure Signs Your Crush likes you too!
So an eye candy caught your attention and now you can’t stop thinking about them. You toss and turn in bed wondering if they like you back but you’re clueless if they do… You want to make a move but you’re wary they might...
Is this a good thing and how he reacted to it was a positive reaction?
Basically we already know each other. So my stupid mate saw him and his mates but I already saw him before she did... So she kicked me. I said ' why you kicking me for ''. Then he looked at me as usual. And he walked past...
Angel_123
Explorer Age: 28 Why do I feel this rush of emotions?
I felt a rush of emotions pass over me while I was preparing to take a shower and it felt different. I had butterflies in my stomach and I could not stop thinking about him. At first I told my best friend and another good...
Anonymous
(25-29) How often do you get strong crushes/sexual attracted to guys?
When you meet a guy, are your feelings mainly dominated by thoughts of sex or something else? I feel like I’m extra picky, but I don’t get easily attracted to guys anymore like I did years ago in my teens. When I see...
Anonymous
(30-35) If you could go back in time and see any band/performer live, who would you want to see?
I would go back in time and see Elvis Presley live. I still listen to a lot of his music and thoroughly enjoy it. On a trip to Hawaii, my family and I went to an Elvis impersonator who turns out he from my home country...
How can you tell the difference between desperation/lust and love?
A lot of times, you may notice people get the feelings of butterflies in their stomach when they feel an intense attraction towards someone they like or love! The question though is, how can you differentiate between...
What should I do?
I went out with a guy twice and he stopped messaging me after the second date.. he messaged me and I told him I wasn’t into ghosters he “explained “ himself which was total bs ( his phone died and he never checked my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Retribution: 10 Great Revenge Movies
1) The Crow Starring: Brandon Lee.Sadly , Lee died during the filming of the Cow in March 1993 Maybe we feel empty because we leave pieces of us in everything we used to love 2) Law Abiding Citizen Starring:...
“I really want to take you to my place to continue the conversation but I have to get up early... next time”?
Met a guy on Tinder, had 1st date after texted about 1 week and 1 phone call. Both of us are 40 years. His body language displayed he was nervous, and bit uptight and not quite a social butterfly type of guy, but a quite...
Sensualfawn
Xper 4 Age: 48 Girls, I kind of started drinking to deal with anxiety and my feelings for someone which weren't returned, is there another way around this?
I've always been a bit insecure but I've always had lots of love to give. Never really had much relationships, a few hookups, 1 year+ long relationship in which she ended up cheating, been single since. Had a few...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal that I still feel like this after 7 months of being with my gf?
We see eachother 1-2 times a week. I feel so good with her. I really, really like her and the time we spend together. We haven’t had any full blown arguments, just a couple disagreements. Honestly, every...
Anonymous
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