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My 24 year old sister just moved in with me after graduating from college. She has borderline personality disorder and can get extremely emotional. Back when she was little and a teenager she would violently act up when she got emotional our dad would just beat and restrain her because he thought mental illnesses were a complete load. She did make it through college after 12+ stays at a state mental hospital and she finally found a treatment course that helps her cope with anger issues. But now she still gets scared and anxious very easily so she hugs me all the time and these hugs last a few minutes and she squeezes as hard as she can. Normally this would only be a minor inconvenience but she's also an F cup (but apart from that is skin and bones) so several times a day I have to deal with her boobs squished up all over me for several minutes straight and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. I've thought about telling her I'm just not a huger but when my other (normal sized) sister comes over I don't have a problem with hugging her so she'll probably flip out with jealousy if she saw me hugging her. Any advice?

One of my best friend was in a relationship with this girl for five months. I think they loved each other. Anyway he is a narcissistic control freak & he ended up breaking up with her because she had apparent jealousy issues about him prioritizing his friends who were girls over her. Seemingly a toxic relationship since he cannot or never has admitted wrong doing in his relationship and indeed in our friendship in general. She took it quite bad & he started spreading stuff about her in college & thus she became depressed. She still went back and & had sex with him a couple of times but she has realised since this that this was not the way to go and both do not speak to each other now.

Anyway fast forward three months & on a night out I end up back in her house and stay the night. We both agree not to tell him. I feel guilty but do not regret doing it. I actually would like to pursue her but am not sure if it is right to do so. Both seem over each other and any time he brings her up he says he hates her and never wants to talk to her again, could all be covering unresolved emotion though.

Am I stupid for wanting to do it again? I honestly do not know how he would react. Given his nature if he found out he would utilise it against me I think. But then again this is all speculation.