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I made a post back in October about my girlfriend having a male bestie too close. A guy whom she traveled the world with, and he’s the ex husband of a girl she used to be friends with. I’ve mentioned before that her relationship with him makes me uncomfortable. She claims she’s not attracted to him, thinks he’s gross, and thinks of him as a little brother. Which doesn’t give me any confirmation. I don’t believe her. Plus she has mostly guy friends and only 3 female friends.

The other day she was yelling because she’s sexually frustrated. She’s knows I’m a diabetic and it interferes with my sex life. Now I’m paranoid that she’s sleeping with her guys. Plus, the male bestie she has just moved close to her and lives on the same block as her. She doesn’t mention his name as often but they’re always texting late. She goes to his house every weekend because he has gatherings. She asks me to come but I refuse.

I’ve made my final decision to breakup with her. I’m slowly emotionally detaching my myself from her. I plan of dumping before April. I should I tell her the truth? Because I feel like I’m gonna be criticized for being jealous, insecure, and needy if I do.

Once upon a time a woman named Kathryn was in the early stages of dating and sleeping with Antwan. She had an ex boyfriend named Jim that she openly stated was a "really good friend of hers". Kathryn stated that she texts him before going to his local wellness store to see if he is there and have items ready for pick up.

It is the Christmas holiday. Antwan is dating Kathryn but doesn't know Jim. They both have a mutual friend. A picture was put on facebook of their mutual friend in the first week of December. It was posted by Jim. Kathryn liked this picture. The caption of the picture said:

"Will miss my buddy. Looking forward to my trip to Mexico next week."

It is the holidays. Everyone seems to be traveling to places for Christmas. Kathryn has an older brother who lives in Mexico City. Antwan has been dating her for 3 weeks. She seems flustered and disoriented packing. They have sex. The next day she seems nervous. She kisses Antwan goodbye and leaves for Mexico.

While in Mexico she texts Antwan throughout the day. All day every day. Constant pictures. She is very into Antwan. But at one point she says she misses him but also loves Mexico so much she wants to return in the Summer for 3 months.

A few months go by. Kathryn texting her ex boyfriend Jim comes up. Antwan has been dating her for 2 months now. In bed he asks her why she needs to text this ex boyfriend to see if he is working at the store he owns. Kathryn says he is just a friend.

She says, "It's no big deal. He helped drop off my brother's Christmas gift."
Antwan says, "In Mexico?"
Kathryn corrects Antwan, "No. He prepared the gift items in his store before I left for me."

Wasn't Jim in Mexico at that point? Antwan then asks why they broke up. Kathryn wraps her arms around her stomach in bed and becomes annoyed saying, "I just don't like him like that. We didn't have good sexual chemistry."

Did Kathryn meet up with her ex in Mexico?