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My ex (boyfriend for 10 months, ex for almost 6 months) has been weird since he broke up with me. Though lately, I'm afraid to talk to him. I'm holding back crying every time he says something to me that isn't nice. I get upset with him very easily.

I should probably mention that I asked him to the Valentine's Day dance (which is tonight) and he said no (he said he didn't even want to go at all). That upset me a lot. It's like he struck a nerve or something.

He gets very impatient with me very easily lately and I don't understand why. He doesn't give me a chance when I try to talk to him. This is upsetting, obviously, but why do I get SO UPSET every time?

I do try to talk with him about this and he just shrugs it off. He acts like he isn't listening, but usually is. I had a long talk with a guy who is like a brother to both of us and he said he doesn't understand it either. He doesn't understand how we went from being a great couple to barley being able to talk to each other. This guy is very rarely confused, so his is big.

Any ideas? Please don't be rude. I can block you now. 😊
Thanks 😃

Okay so yesterday was a fun day. but I just didn't like it when my friend (let s call her Kelly) was treating me. She complains about me being slow and she gets impatient with me at times. After the bathroom was cleaned up and had a bleach smell, I went inside to change and Kelly was like, "Toni (me), get out of the bathroom, NOW! Why did you go in there? There's a bleach smell. Toni why are you so dumb?" I told her I wasn t dumb and she asked me why I went in there and just change in her room and hurry up. I made an angry face at her. She told me to stop being such a drama queen. I was SO angry that I wanted to cry and I lost two relatives in September and it's so hard. Then after a fun afternoon at the mall, she asked me to check the time for the bus. I did some research and my friend was like, "Hello!! The time. Hurry up Toni, god you re so slow." I told her, "Alright just quit pressuring me!" and she was like, "Well you're the one that s going so slow. Calm down, you're being pathetic." I got fustrated and just looked at her. She told me we better not get lost or she s going to be mad. She said she was going to slap me but she was just kidding with me.

I like Kelly in all but I just didn t like the way she treated me. My other friends don't do that to me so I prefer to hang with them then Kelly. Kelly complains that a lot of people haven't been calling or hang with her. I tried to ignore her but I guess I m just too nice to do that. I'm autistic and she knows about it. I have high functioning autism and it sucks and it's like I can't get it "right". For the past three months she has been only inviting me and no one else since everyone is busy with work and some are married. I go to school and she doesn't go to school or work. She travels though. She doesn't treat everyone else like this but me. She's going away to Los Angeles to stay with her cousin for two months and I'm happy her but I'm honestly glad that I don't have to deal with her for a while.