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So I had a friends with benefits and I wanted to end it a while ago because I got feelings, he ended up telling me that I'm just overthinking and I ended up believing him. Time went on and I kept telling him I wanted to end it because I wanted to be friends and I didn't want to be so attached if he ended up having to move or getting a girlfriend because it would hurt me. He said he wasn't going anywhere and to stop overthinking. Finally I was at a point where I couldn't take it anymore, I said no more. He said one more time so I agreed. But then that took forever to happen because of scheduling and within the same week he got a new girlfriend and now I'm heartbroken. He is still trying to convince me I'm special to him, but then he went on the same trip with her that he kept saying he wanted to go on with me and I'm absolutely crushed and infuriated. I really wanted to stay friends because besides the sex, he was a really good friend. Now I'm starting to think it's not worth it. Is it reasonable for me to be upset or am is it my fault for not having the balls to end it earlier?

So I have a friend with extra benefits type relationship with a guy! He's super handsome & very sweet & it's not like a friends with benefits with NO strings attached type thing, it's more than that but we're not in a relationship bc we want to become best friends before trying a relationship! So long story short, at first we would text every single day, all day! & now just recently, he may text me my morning text & we may text like 5 texts after that in the morning & then he will read my text & never reply dude lol! & then I have to wait all the way til the next Morning before I get another text & the same thing happens! We send a few texts & then he reads it & never replies to it! & recently, he may skip a day without texting me at all & I will not contact him because I'm always the last one to text him anyway lol & so when I don't text him, the next day he will end up texting me! He did warn me when we first started this THINGship lol that some days we wouldn't talk bc he be real busy & stuff but my thing is, there were times when he was SUPER busy & he still managed to talk to me throughout the day but he's stopped now! So I'm thinking about beating him at his own little game! I call it a game bc I don't think anyone is soo busy that they can't send one "i miss u" or "I'm thinking of u" text? Lol like come on now! He also said he's not by his phone 24/7 which I understand cuz people have lives to live lol but I mean we may talk at 9 in the morning & then after that I don't hear ANYTHING else from him! So, I'm thinking of doing the same thing to him so that he can know how it feels ya know? So I plan to wait for my good morning text lol & then send him a text & then at some point after a couple of texts, I will do exactly what he does to me & just read it & not even reply lol & then maybe text him the next day! Or who knows I might even wait to see if he texts ME the next day lol! I think it will show him how I be feeling when he does that! What y'all think?