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In 2012 I met this great girl and we went out couple of times. I thought she liked me but I never made a move, since I was young , stupid and recovering from being cheated by my ex. didn't really trust women and just a thought of putting myself in a position where someone could hurt me again was terrifying. Not asking her out is something I regret very much.

But we stayed in contact and flirted a lot , but were never again in the same city, she helped me a lot during my depression. But 7 months ago her inconsistent responding started to irritate me and I was having a rough patch again and I did a stupid thing off blowing things out of proportion. I wanted her in my life, even just as a friend, but at times it seemed like a one way road and then something snapped in me, deciding , no more regrets! I admitted how I felt for her. And she told me she had a boyfriend and then I realised, I´m not her friend, I knew how relationships are important to her and she didn't tell me, I wasn't in her inner circle like she was in mine and that hurted and that conversation ended very ugly.

Today I´m great, I pulled all my shit together and I´m moving to a new city in a new country, fresh start, just what I need. But as my flight nears I can't stop thinking about this, I once let a bad thing from past influence me, I dont want it to happen again. I have this big need to end it well, to send her a text to thank her for helping me and that I´m sorry how it ended and explain why I behaved that way.

The only thing stoping me is;I dont want to wake ghost from the past. This would make ME feel better, but what impact would it have on her, is it selfish from me, to take it out off my system and out off nowhere just hit her with it?
I dont want to reconnect, I just... I just hate how it ended and she is and always will be very special to me, she helped me a lot with my fear regarding dating and getting cheated again.

So, should I do this or not?
thanks for reading I know it was a bit long

Heya, just wanted to get a few opinions and to see whether I am right or not.

I am a while male man living in Canada and have come across a variety of cultures when dating.

Now when I have a conversation with an Indian lady she seems extremely interested and shows every single attribute of interest - long answers, asks questions, flirts, shows interest, smiley faces, etc...

For instance I approached and talked to this one Indian girl who ended up asking ME for my number and showing every sign of interest.

However when it comes time to ask her out, they would always say they are busy and available the next week, in a very nice and sympathetic way of course.

I was wondering what you Indian girls are thinking? Are you:

A: Playing hard to get? or
B: Are not interested?

Problem with B is that they show sooooo much interest and are sooo nice and seem very very interested!! Literally show every single sign of interest in the textbook. But it's the fact that they ALL seem busy this week and can only do the next that's problematic, aka trying to put the guy off?

Any inside opinions from Indian women? Are you trying to determine how loyal the man will be? Why else would you be so nice and waste your energies on leading them on while not being interesed?

Any opinions much appreciated, and please don't hit me with the "race doesn't matter" because it does, every culture has their own system of dating and testing.

Thanks!