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There are 2 guys in my life currently who I do NOT understand.

Guy #1, in person, acts VERY much like he has a crush on me. He either starts showing off or gets very quiet and nervous the moment he notices that I entered the room. Always one extreme or the other, usually getting shy and nervous, considering around his friends he's very outgoing and chatty. He hovers near me and you can sense that he wants to say something, but for whatever reason, he usually doesn't. He looks at me constantly from across the room, but when he's close to me he has trouble with eye contact and tends to look at the ground. Initiated first meeting by complimenting me and shaking my hand and it definitely seemed like he'd rehearsed it a lot beforehand. Stumbles on his words when talking to me, and others tell me his voice changes slightly and he looks at me differently.

BUT, he seems to avoid me when his friends are nearby, and if I contact him through the internet, he denies my friend request and my emails seem to be purposely ignored. But the next time I see him in person, he'll do a double take, look at me a lot, sit near me, and if I say hi to him he gets a really big, genuine, cute smile. Huh?

Guy #2 basically doesn't talk to me at all, seems generally awkward around me (or just women in general, maybe), doesn't look at me much unless I'm near him. I always sort of felt like he thought I was pretty or something by the way he looked at me, but there was never anything else that resembled crush behavior. Recently I found out that he apparently had quite a strong crush on me. Because he asked and found out that I don't have any feelings for him, immediately started avoiding me and then unfriended me on Facebook. Which is very unlike him.

So basically, I don't know what to think. One guy acts like he has a crush on me and then acts like he doesn't. The other does NOT act like he does, but apparently he does... anyone have any thoughts on what'