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My boyfriend and I have been together for only 3 weeks. We've gotten together really quick because he likes me. After a week, he asked me to be his girlfriend and we are official. The week after, he felt like things are going way to fast and he is scared! Maybe he's not pulling away but he's for sure pulling back and slowly down. My take on this is, I think something might be wrong.

He's not calling me and we rarely talk on the phone. The strange thing is, he was the one who brought up that we should talk on the phone. But, he called me twice last week by himself The other 2 times, I had to tell him to maybe give me shout if he has time. We had a conversation last weekend how I feel weird because we only text and he barely calls. He told me he tries but at his new place, the reception is basically dead. He also explain that there's not much time for him to give me a call after work. I think he's making excuses.

Seems like his goal is to see me once a week in comparison to at least 2. The first week when were together, he came to find me at least 2 times a week Now, he makes plans with friends rather than spending an extra day with me. It also seems like he has a lot of friends. I actually asked to see him on Tuesday this week, he said he got something to do. But on Tuesday, he actually only had to do a quick errand and stayed home to read a book. We are meeting up tomorrow (Sat) and he's staying overnight at my place. He told me today that on Sunday (the next day), he's going to hiking with some friends seeing the beautiful fall view. He never invited me and I never met any of his friends. He's not taking the next step to let me meet his friends. He only told 2 friends about me. The rest have no clue he has a girlfriend or even seeing someone. He did mention 2 weeks ago that he's not ready for that step.

I also found out that he ignores my Whatsapp message at first. He goes on Whatsapp, responds to other people first, then later on, he would reply me.