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Usually there are two types in a relationship: the one that likes them less, and the one that likes them more.

The one that likes them less: this one is the one that is usually "chased" more. Usually this one is seen as the "girl" in most relationships BUT guys can also be in this position where he likes his partner less than she likes him. The one that likes the less has to put in less effort and usually seems to have more "power" in the relationship, as this one can be like the one always does not care as much about their partner's feelings as their partner cares about their feelings. Usually this one would break some relationship rules and not care that much, because they care more about their feelings and come off as not caring if they hurt their partner's feelings. Some rules they make break include: seeing other people, talking excessively about their ex, and being self centered.
The good thing about this position is that they don't have to put in much effort and the relationship will continue. The worst thing about this position is that they truly deep in their heart, does not care that much for their partner.

The one that likes them more: this one is the one that is usually the "chaser" or the one that has to follow all the rules to try to please their partner, and cares about their partner more than their partner cares for them. They want to make sure they aren't cheating, they are providing ample emotional, psychological and mental support along with gift giving, service, time and compliments. They will usually be happier than their partner because they feel like they are the one getting a "great deal" from the relationship. They don't care too much as long as the partner does not stray or cheat on them (stays faithful/loyal).

I got it as the birthday present from a very close friend. Several years ago I discovered that the woman was manipulative and cheated me on personal and business level. I quited this connection... But the plant has stayed... And every time I was looking at it, it reminded me of the person.
This winter I was so mischievous, I left it on the balcony to freeze :/
So now I will be free of all the mental connection as well :)
To make things more complicated, I'm a big fan of nature and always fight for animals and environmental issues :)

(don't take it too seriously)