Search Results: no spark at a date

How long to wait before being in contact again?

So me (guy18) and my ex (girl19) have known each other since early childhood, we started playing with toys when we were like 5 years old or something lol. We pretty much grew up together, her house was 100m away from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Stay with new guy or go back to ex love?

Okay so, I've been in many short relationships but my first love is the only one I've never been able to forget since the 7th grade we only dated a little bit in the 8th grade and then i moved away. When i moved back...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

My boarding school nightmare!

The summer I turned seventeen, my parents decided to send me to a christian boarding school in Michigan for my senior year of highschool. Initially I had mixed reactions for the possibilities of making new friends and...

allamerican

Xper 5 Age: 29

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Why most first dates deserve a second chance

First dates can be nerve recking. Especially, when you're just getting out in the field or haven't been in a while. You tend to overthink little things that usually come very natural to you. "How's my appearance?" "What...

Stacyzee

Editor Age: 40

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Should you spark an old flame after 4 years?

charitypink

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Anyone feel like no good guys like you?

Anyone feel like the only guys that seems to be interested in you are: -"door matt guys": guys Who dont really have anything to offer, normally unattractive and awkward and tries to compensate with it by buying you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys feel rejected if you don't sleep with them while dating?

I've been on four dates with this guy. Okay sure, we met at the bar and the first "date" was talking and making out on my couch til 8 am.. and some more stuff happened, but we didn't go all the way. I've been on 2 dates...

kutesy

Xper 6 Age: 38

How to keep them Interested

Relationships are so precious , the sparks that fly at the beginning of a relationship are the absolute best to experience, but no matter how much the earth moves, the clouds lift, from the passion you are experiencing,...

soccerchick4eva

Editor Age: 27

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I've been rejected so much by guys, how do I get back out there?

I tried online dating on and off for the past few years. I've been out of college now a few years and started online dating my last year of college. Where I would go on for a few months, get horribly rejected and recover...

sassygal223

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guys: The "Friendzone" is not even half as bad as you make it, if even real

Welcome :) Ahhhh, the dreaded friendzone. The bad place. Nobody any guy wants to go when with someone he likes, and it's frequently with girls. A notorious place is the mind of men. But, to be blunt, it isn't real. And...

CityBoy773

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Girl's Behavior

Is this girl doing it for publicity or an excuse to just insult me?

Okay, this been going on since I was in 8th grade (currently a freshman). I know for a fact she doesn't like me at all since she has a 16 yr. old boyfriend in the 8th grade. She would call me "bae" and start feeling on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Feelings slowly growing?

are feelings supposed to slowly grow and take a long time to flourish? or is it supposed to be quick and simple? are you supposed to like someone right away? I dont think I've ever had this happen before. normally, if i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How to get a girlfriend? sister worried I might become elliot rodger. Personality doesn't matter?

as the title show I am 18 years old and 6 feet. I am little bit depressed that I haven't had sex yet. It not because of society pressure... it because i sincerly want sex. Nobody wants to date me but I am not socially...

Recker12

Xper 4 Age: 27

Why do I get upset if my guy friend implies that he doesn't want me? Or does he want me?

I have a guy friend. he used to be a therapist and very good at understanding women. He called me today I was shopping. He asked me if I am buying lingerie and I said it's a secret. Then he said it's OK I don't need you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it bad to be a cougar?

As an adult I don't card people I meet. But now iam 44 and exercising a lot. I haven't dated for over two years and I used to date people very close to my age even 8 years older. Now I started meeting people and I tend to...

Alohaloli

Xper 6 Age: 55

As an adult I don't card people I meet. But now iam 44 and exercising a lot. I haven't dated for over two years and I used to date people very close to my age even 8 years older. Now I

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I don't even know how or if to get back into dating, if ever? I'm heartbroken... need advice?

I don't even know how or if to get back into dating, if ever? I'm heartbroken... need advice? I'm almost 25, never really dated. I've TRIED LITERALLY EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN to get dates, let alone a boyfriend. I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it necessary to feel sparks during the first date in order to go on a second?

So went on a date with a very lovely guy yesterday. He picked me up, drove to amsterdam where we went picknicking, got on a paddle boat (or pedalo?), went to a cafe to go pooling and eventually had dinner. He payed for...

curbylizzle

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Why did he mislead her?

My friend is an extreme free spirit who went on a date. The guy she met loved the way she looked and said she looked fantastic. He complicated her more than one time that night. Although she felt there was no spark (they...

Anonymous

(36-45)