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Search Results: paying for the first date
We went on a first date... is this an offer for a second date? Some etiquette things I'm a little lost on and could use advice, please haha?
We went out and there were hints of meeting again. For instance halfway through, he mentioned coming out to my neighbourhood (I went to him because he asked for the first date and we didn't know a halfway point, he said...
Anonymous
(30-35) Tinder Gold Has Arrived: Will You Be Upgrading?
Looks like Tinder Gold is what everyone has been waiting for when it comes to online dating. The Enchilada of all dating apps and play to win microtransactions. Tinder Gold is here so WTF is it exactly. Tinder Gold is...
This had been posted here many times but really Who pays for the date?
Man, woman, one time the lady, another time the man, or always has to be shared and shared. or that can be negotiated between the 2? I read many different point of views on the subject. There are women who says in...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Should a guy buy the drinks on a first date or meet up?
If a guy invites you out for a drink what would you think if he only bought one round. suggested before had at getting food to but when you are out doesn't mention eating. I don't mind paying my way and don't expect a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I text her again?
So basically had set up a date with this girl for Saturday just gone and she had bailed on me before so this one being the second in a row, she told me she was broke but she was coming over my way and I had offered to pay...
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend asked me to pay for drink?
We have dated for 2 months. He lives in the other city so we only can meet during the weekend. But not all weekend. Yesterday we went to theater and pubs. He paid for the movie and first drinks. Then he asked me “How...
Chloe_211
Xper 2 Age: 37 Why would a guy who you consider your friend (not best friends though)?
will text you out of the blue, totally unexpected for you, a naughty proposition to go to a motel and get laid? Do friends do that? The guy and you know each other sure and are friends, you are not strangers but you...
Anonymous
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Grouch225
Xper 4 Age: 30 Am I wrong for thinking he's cheap?
I recently went on a date with a guy. At the end the bill came to £18. First he just sat there not even looking at the bill. Then he got out £20 to pay. I thought he was getting it then he said to me (right in front...
Bella6510
Xper 5 Age: 35 What was your worst Date?
What was your worst date? Personally I went on a dinner date with a guy I met online. The conversation was flowing and I thought things were going well enough. When it was time to pay the bill the guy said he didn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) Will I get a second date with her?
After my first date with this really sweet girl, I texted her, saying thank you for paying for our lunch ( I wasn't able to pay, because they don't accept credit card). I apologized (a couple of times) , and she said it's...
Thetruedude
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is it a turnoff if a girl insists on splitting the check on the first date?
If a guy offers to pay on the first date, but the girl says "No, it's fine, I'll pay my half instead," is that a turnoff? For me at least, I prefer to pay for my myself on a first date, simply because I don't know him all...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I gonna score a second date with her?
After my first date with this really sweet girl, I texted her, saying thank you for paying for our lunch ( I wasn't able to pay, because they don't accept credit card). I apologized (a couple of times) , and she said it's...
Thetruedude
Xper 4 Age: 33 Dating Etiquette for the Modern Age
As our society continues along the complex and arduous road towards gender equality, it's important to consider how dating and romance should be impacted. With equal rights must come equal effort and equal responsibility....
samhradh_leannan
Editor Age: 36 Is it rude, or cheap to suggest going Dutch on a first date?
Im older and am just starting to get back into seeing other women post divorce. I make decent money, but dating is very expensive! Most of my dates have failed for one reason or another, but I'm still dropping $100-200...
LuxInterior
Xper 4 Age: 52 What do you think about a guy who never pays on dates and always asks the girl and pay and says he'll pay her back later?
So I just got back with this guy I prevuously dated and I was the one breaking things off and broke up with him! Since then he was reachin iut to me trying to make small talks every now and then! A few days ago he asked...
Fazthesass
Xper 4 Age: 31 Would you get back with someone you dated briefly in the past? (please read post till the end) ?
Ok so, I dated this guy for roughly 6 weeks and I was the one cutting it off and wished him well when breaking up! We broke up around February and ever since he was reaching out to me sending me messages trying to make...
Fazthesass
Xper 4 Age: 31 How can a guy be so intimate during casual sex?
I am 27/f and I had been texting a guy (28/m) for over two months but didn't date because he was leaving soon. We enjoyed our conversations but I didn't have any feelings for him. One week before he left, I called (first...
sara10
Xper 4 Age: 35 Why would a guy show intimate emotions during casual sex?
Had been texting a guy for over two months but didn't date because he was leaving soon. We enjoyed our conversations but I didn't have any feelings for him. One week before he left, I called (first time) and said that it...
sara10
Xper 4 Age: 35 It's the first date, why not split the bill. Than on the second date worry about who pays what?
a lot of times on the first date you both barely know each other. If you're both there it's because you both want to be there. You're both starting to get to know each other. And depending on how said date goes, you may...
He-man
Xper 4 Age: 30 