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In business we write a MOU to communicate expectations clearly. So much of the problems in these often perplexing and confoudning times of relationships evolves around expectations, trust, and breaking assumed contract. If there is a stated position and even better... consequences, it would seem to resolve a lot of matters. Here's an example for which you can improve I'm sure. It doesn't have to be legal.

There are so many flavors of relationship now, it's baffling.

Intention of Relationship: Committed 2 people __ swingers __ Open MFM ___, FMF ___ Poly ___
Hookup only _____ friends with benefits _______ # of parties intended 1, 2, 3, X
[im sure there are more options here]

Termination of relationship: Provided in writing may be accompanied by phone call.

Ghosting Permitted: Y / N
Blocking Permitted: Y / N for periods of time

Therapy: Therapy has been discussed as a potential method of resolving conflicts: Y / N

Bond: Each will float a $100 bond to be held in escrow. Violation of contract prior to disbanding relationship results in forfeiture of bond. In event one party has mis represented their position, they forfeit their bond.

Signed: Him: ____________ Date: _________ Her: _______________ Date: _______

I am not saying have a lawyer draw this up, that it can't be changed or someone change their mind, nor is it legally binding. I'm saying... communicate and be honest. Other topics like... sex before marriage, living together and such seem appropriate.