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debating whether to buy my boyfriend some female clothes

he started nonsexually crossdressing when he met me, he dressed up in some of my clothes and even did makeup

about half a year ago, he started in public, and 2 months ago he went to his ballet class in a leotard and tights and now regularly wears it.

other than that he still borrows my clothes
bc his parents won't get any for him altho they aren't bothered what he wears

should i buy him a ton of clothes and take him shopping for some

Honestly, do y'all judge others based on appearances initially? At first glance? Are your judgments usually correct? Is it bad to do so?

I personally do judge and I don't think it's always bad.

For instance, if I see a guy coming my way, face covered in tattoos, baggy clothes, mean or mad demeanor, you best believe I'm crossing to the other side of the street. He's more than likely a gang banger, and I'm not gonna waste my time being pc and accepting like "oh, he could be a PhD candidate, I'm not gonna judge based on looks". Yea right.
Or if there's a woman who wears heavy makeup and/ or wears tight and revealing clothes, again, I'm gonna have a hard time believing AT FIRST GLANCE that she volunteers in her spare time and is writing a dissertation on whatever. Especially if she's twerking and sticking her tongue out.
I'm sorry, but it is nearly impossible to know everyone. All we have is first appearances and stereotypes. I'm not gonna waste my time and possibly get shot trying to figure out if the face tattoo guy is or isn't a gang banger. I'm gonna just avoid him.
This doesn't mean I ONLY judge on looks though, notice how I mentioned actions or body language. If that chick is twerking with her tongue in a low cut shirt and booty shorts out in public, it's difficult for me to think she has more to offer than just her looks and body.

I remember an incident when I was in 7th grade.

I lived in a very hot climate at the time, and everyone wore short-shorts (even though it was technically against dress code). I was a goody two-shoes for a long time and didn’t wear shorts, but finally I gave in and put them on, since nobody else was getting called out.
Feeling much more comfortable, I went to school and avoided a heat stroke! However, halfway through the day an announcement came over the intercom:
”not_a_queen, please report to the office.”
I went, wondering why I was being summoned to the gates of hell (aka the VP’s office).
Apparently, my shorts were “inappropriate,” “distracting,” and “broke the dress code.”
EVERYONE ELSE WORE THOSE SHORTS. SOME WERE SHORTER THAN MINE.
But, because I was not an anorexic stick, I got in trouble. Having an ass is a crime, apparently. I distracted someone (probably a male) to the point that my body had to be covered for his sake—even though it was 110 degrees (Fahrenheit) out and people regularly got heat stroke or other heat-related injuries. I felt ashamed and objectified, and (to this day) I rarely wear shorts outside of my house.

Similar incidents have happened to other girls. Oh, she’s wearing a tank top that bares her shoulders? WHAT A CRIME!! Look, that young woman with a larger cup size and a waist happens to be wearing a tight shirt? GET OUTTA HERE!!!

So, guys, is it really that distracting? Are you unable to learn and function at school if a girl wears form-fitting clothes? Should women have to cover their bodies because you guys just can’t handle it? Isn’t that insulting to both girls and guys?

Food for thought 😋