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I broke up with my ex 2 months ago since he told me he'll be going abroad for a year for work. I told him I couldn't handle being in a long distance relationship... I've been in two before and it was just too difficult.

Anyway this guy I'm now seeing I have known since November and have gotten close to. We've kissed and well aware I've recently broke up with my ex so wants to take it slow. We aren't together but it's in the process.

3 days ago I got a text from my ex telling me he told his work he wanted to come back home, me being the reason. He's back home now and admitted all he could think about on the plane was me and couldn't stop thinking about me whilst he was abroad.
He did some serious thinking and asked me if I am willing to take him back we should live together.

I still have deep feelings for my ex, is still love him. But I also have feelings for the guy I'm seeing.
I'm 22 and I'm honest; my ex knows about me seeing someone else and the new guy knows about my ex wanting me back. They are both understanding and have both said they'll give me space to choose who my heart lies with.

They are both sweet and kind, I don't want to hurt either of their feelings. And I hate weighing up their pros and cons. I'm still in love with my ex and I did miss him when he was away and has offered to take a bigger step with me.
But then the new guy has done so much for me, he was my shoulder to cry on when my ex told me he was working abroad for a year and when I had a breakdown that my gran with dementia completely couldn't remember who I was and accused me of trespassing.

I really don't know who to choose and it's tearing me apart, who should I go with?

No judgements please and be adults about it.

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So I haven't seen my dad in 4 years or so. My mom cheated on him and he got with another woman shortly after and has been with her since. My family don't like her cause they feel she's holding him back from seeing us. She's extremely insecure and doesn't want him hanging out with us or around my mom cause she feels like my mom will try and take him away from her. My dad lives in another city a couple hours away from us. Whenever my mom brings up how he needs to come see us he says that we should see him and that we aren't babies anymore. I don't like my dad's girlfriend cause when I was staying w/ them for a few days she told me to change into jeans cause there were guys in the house and that they might look at me in a wrong way and I didn't want too and my dad agreed with her and didn't stand up for me at all. It lead to an argument and me upset so I left to my other aunt's house which I stood there for 3 years. Apparently she's religious and my dad became super religious by talking about God all the time. I believe in God by he talks about it so much that it's kinda annoying. So today he randomly called me out of the blue then I got into a deep convo w/ him he was saying how he'll always have his home open to me and that I'll never be alone. I told him how everyone always chooses everyone over me and that family should come first then he went on about how not to worry and that God has everything in his hands. He then told me that GOD comes first in his life, his wife, then his children and that made me upset and I hung up on him and then like 2 hours later I lied and said my laptop died. Am I overreacting or do I got a right to hang up on him for saying this? by the way my dad never acted this religious. He'd smoke weed was addicted to pain killers and listened to rap music all the time. He said his life has changed for the better and he stopped doing all these things an that he's a completely changed man.