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So I will say that I do feel like my dating life is cursed. Why do I say that? I’m in my twenties and have yet to have a long term relationship in my life. I have tried almost every dating app, I’m told I’m pretty but have yet to find a good man. Almost every woman I know has men lined up to date them. Why is this never the case for me? I’ve taken the approach to message the men first on the apps. What happens? They either never respond, stop responding after a while or take forever to respond. I have more of an outcome when the guy initiates first. It usually goes as follows: the ones I want don’t want me back and the ones I don’t want pursue me. I feel like there’s something either wrong with me (am I not as attractive as I’m told?) or the men around are horrible.

Met a guy we became close friends and confidants, we were open with almost everything he had a girlfriend I had a boyfriend and as a result we remained just friends for 3 of his relationships

We were friends for 3 years before we started dating.. we’ve been together 2 years now and in my head everything has been perfect and that’s what scared me

Together for 2 years and we’ve had no fights or real arguments we get along extremely well so I’ve had no idea what he’s like during argument-day
He’s the quiet responsible type who doesn’t really have a social life outside of our relationship

He got a job in another state and we’ve agreed he’d work there 1 year. Even being far away we were in constant contact, he always sent me money and we took trips together when he got time off

A female facebooked me telling me they’ve been in a relationship in that state since he went there and she had no idea about me

After being caught he’s been apologizing since and trying to make it up to me saying it was the pressure and distance, bear in mind I’m giving him such a hard time but I always need my questions answered to understand why

Besides the cheating i never felt neglected while he was there I’m so torn and don’t know what to do

Since the day the woman messaged me she hasn’t done so anymore. She approached me saying “OUR boyfriend is a cheater” and she seems hurt that he wants to make it work with me and not her. He says he’s completely cut contact with her and I believe it because I believe she would come and tell me as she seems to want to be in competition with me

Should I give him another chance or is he going to do it again? He says he will be coming home for good when he is able to travel again.