"The Gentle Giant"
Arms big enough to bend steel girders. Even the "bad boys" lower their gaze and make room for him as he enters a room. But he's soft spoken, and a tender soul, who would never harm a fly. He cries at beautifully written poems, and roots for the good guy in soppy romantic films, but if a home invader ever came trespassing, he could put their whole upper body through a solid brick wall without breaking a sweat.
"The roughneck with a heart of gold"
Can fix anything around the house that's busted. Has a no-nonsense, unsympathetic demeanour. Some may be put off by his gruff exterior and caustic, ball-busting sense of humour. But he's fiercely loyal to his family and friends, and will sacrifice his own comfort to make sure his wife, kids, parents, and coworkers are treated right. His word is his honour, and to him a handshake means more than any legal contract.
"The straight-edge good samaritan"
What this do-gooder may lack in excitement and passion, he excels in being dependable and generous. His good-hearted nature extends not only to his family, friends, and local community, but also to the dispossessed, the homeless, and the downtrodden. You'll most likely find him spending every second Friday evening at the local soup kitchen, rather than the local nightclub. He brings his community together and provides a moral compass for the people around him, and he leads by example for his kids, tirelessly doing the good and proper thing, even when some criticise him as being "dull" or "inflexible".
"The freewheelin' vagabond"
This free spirit is a true hippie at heart, his wanderlust bringing him to new and foreign lands, while also making him feel uncomfortable being "chained down" to a more static way of living. He lives by the "no shoes, no shirt, no problem" motto, and disdains any form of materialistic commercialism. He may not have the most stable life situation or long term career plan, but his reverence for life itself infuses everything you do together with a sense of adventure and significance. You may not always know where you're heading with him, but you can be sure there'll never be a dull moment.
"The silver-tongued persuader"
This guy has a penchant for the finer things in life, and he knows just what to say and whose palms to grease to get those finer things. The persuader is used to having things go his own way, and as a result, he's usually found in high-growth industries like real estate, day trading, stock brokerage, law firms, or high-end, commission-based direct sales. He doesn't much care for dealing with people's emotions, but he's adept at telling them what they want to hear. He expects you to look your best at all times, as he sees you as a reflection of his own status and success. But in return, he'll pamper you like a queen, and make sure every bell boy, waiter, patron, and business associate treats you like a celebrity.
"The shy, sensitive artist"
This guy wears his heart on his sleeve, and it shows. He may be awkward at large social gatherings, and doesn't always have the "smoothest" things to say. But he sees beauty in places where nobody else even looks. He sees the "universe in a grain of sand", and this perspective and devotion to beauty and truth gives him an insight and sensitivity to his surroundings that borders on prophetic. He knows when you're feeling down, and knows just the right way to empathise and bring you back from the darkness. Because he's probably been tempted by that same darkness himself, as his tendency to be misunderstood by others can leave him feeling isolated from "common folk", who tend to talk over him and ignore the rich tapestry that is his inner world of feelings, ideas, intuitions, and expressions of tenderness. Loving him takes a delicate touch, but his compassion and appreciation has almost no equal in a world that can appear callous and uncaring by comparison.
"The daredevil"
Lives fast, wild, and always in the moment. The daredevil would rather go mountain climbing than IKEA shopping. He'll expect you to keep up with his fast-paced, living-on-edge ways, but as long as you're willing to turn up for his next adventure, you'll find him a constant source of motivation and inspiration. Physical and mental limits mean nothing to the daredevil, and although this reckless approach can land him in hot water, he'd rather die than live in complacency and fear.
"The reclusive seducer"
Enigmatic and complicated, he prefers to spend time in his metaphorical castle, rather than go into town to mix with the village folk. Something of a loner, he's nonetheless extremely seductive, with a brooding energy that emanates male power and quiet charisma. There's a darkness lurking somewhere behind his piercing blue eyes, and his sexual appetites would make even the more experienced BDSM dungeon master look "vanilla" in comparison. While he takes consent and safe words seriously, you should nonetheless be willing to check your ego at the door of his "pleasure room". He may not be the most emotionally healthy or socially well-adjusted bachelor, but you'll experience dark pleasures with him that rest precariously on the needlepoint between "kinky" and "questionable".
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