Hello and welcome everyone! It’s your boy Hal and this take might be interesting for some stuck-up girls finding answers to those standard, old questions that keep bothering almost every girl in her twenties. So, let’s start-
Question1- Hal! There’s this super cute guy at my school but we both are shy. I tried to flirt with him by smiling and talking to him abit. He responded to me with same gestures but a few days ago, he saw me talking to a bunch of guys and after that, he’s not that old cheerful bud. What does that mean?
Answer- When a guy who’s quite shy and rarely talks to a girl sees the girl he loves talking to several other guys, the only thing that runs through his mind is that he’s meek and shy and isn’t confident about himself while the girl has many “guy friends” with whom she talks in the same way she does to him. Hence, it’s nothing new to her when it comes to having a convo with a guy. So, it might be him overthinking that she was giving her signs while she wasn’t actually. So, he just leaves it and accepts that he has no chance while in reality, the girl craves him back.
Question2- He’s ignoring me. Does he really not like me or is he just playing hard?
Answer- This totally depends guy to guy. Most of the guys don’t ignore their crushes. They tend to act nervous around but most of em don’t ignore the girl they like.Think yourself- would ya act arrogantly around a guy you like? Prolly no! So why would they? Though sometimes, they might be playing but it’s hard to tell without knowing the basic nature of someone.
Question3- Hal! This guy said that I’m smart and caring after I helped him with Math. Does he like me?
Answer- A guy can just aesthetically admire some qualities in you. It never means that he has a thing for you. Moreover, a compliment after you helped him might be his way of showing gratitude. Don’t really consider it until the compliments are quite frequent.
Question4- We have a mutual friend and she introduced us a few weeks ago. Yesterday, we both were in her party. He was constantly staring me and we got some alone time in his car and he cuddled me, circled his hand around my waist when he was drunk. Does he want more?
Answer- If he did all this directly means that he’s at least sexually attracted to you. If he still remembers what happened that night, you might end up in his bed lol. If he doesn’t remember anything, you’re gonna live in suspense unless you don’t talk to him about it.
Question5- We were having sex and he said “I love you”. Is it common for guys to say that without meaning?
Answer- If it was during sex, I’d strongly recommend you not to take it super-seriously. Many guys might flow in the heat of the moment and might say that just bevause you were giving them a good time. There’s a thick line between love and lust and you don’t wanna fall somewhere in between. It’d be better if you could clear it by directly talking to him because not every guy is same. Some might mean it while others might not.
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After reading this, I really want to say "I love you" during sex just to make them hella confused xD
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