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First of all, the two of them started off as dating. They were messing around with each other for 2 months. In the end, they realized they don't work out as a couple so decided to remain as friends. They became best friends of 10 years. It is so long ago, so I was fine with her and the whole situation. I never thought she would still have feelings for him. My fiancé is not attracted to her 10 years ago & obviously has never touched her since. He has been through other serious relationships. We have been together for 2 years and we are stable. I know he loves me and it is not about trust. She needs to get the message that she is not respecting me or our relationship for 2 years, so sorry, you are out.
Since the first day, she avoided to meet me. I find already find that weird. She lives 5 minutes away and makes up a lot of excuses for months. The funny this is, she will be free when it is only my boyfriend. When she asks him out and she knows I'm coming, she just disappears! That happened couple times. Maybe I am thinking too much, but come on, it is shady. When we met, she won't follow me on social media and made me follow her. Isn't that rude? She doesn't like me for sure and I don't care if it's because of me. However, if it is because of my boyfriend, then that's different. I think she has unrequited love for him and she is hiding it! She tells my boyfriend that I am showing red flags that I will cheat on him whenever we argue. She doesn't even know me. She is a problem now and will be in the future. I was willing to make her part of our lives but within the 2 years, she just wants to be part of my boyfriend's life. She is alienating me and not liking me for no particular reason. She has not once try to be warm to me is pretty fishy. And expect me to be okay with you asking my boyfriend out alone? My boyfriend agrees that she is being shady after I pointed out the points. He has no problem cutting her out. I just feel bad because it's not in my nature!

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for 3 months and are in a long distance relationship but see each other at least once every month. March 9th will make 4. He keeps in contact with his exes and it bothers me. He even said that if she needed help, he would tend to her. Recently we had a dispute over him going to another County to help a "friend" of his out. She's a girl and he says that they've never dated. I don't believe that. He even said that they made a promise years ago that if they were not married by a certain age, they would marry each other. She's pretty much been around since the beginning of our relationship and still is. I never knew about her until the argument we had over him going to "help" her. She locked her keys in her car but yet she has a boyfriend. Why couldn't her boyfriend help her? He even went as far as calling her his Plan B! He said he loves her as a plan b. I don't know wtf that means! I feel he doesn't care about our relationship as much as he says he does. Is there something he's hiding or not telling me? I feel like I know an my gut is telling me he's not worth it but my mind wants to wait it out. We even say I love you but at times I question him about it. He's also having a party on the 20th and his ex is attending. I will not be there. Please help