My boyfriend of a year and so, asked me when after a few months of dating to block a huge list of girls he used to date. One of them he was still friends with at the time and I recently realized this. Lately, and as I see on his instagram, he looks her up more than me.. Literally she's a top person and it's a wtf because this only revently appeared. She's in a relationship. But he keeps looking her up and he even told me guys and girls can't be friends. So, I know it's not that. But, he said they had trance music in common and of course we don't and trance is huge for him. I want to confront him because it does bother me. He hides his phone from me. I feel like he's hiding something. I asked him about it once and he said, "you jealous? we have trance music in common.." Umm... so? You dated her? You said, hypocrite, that guys and girls can't be friends and you dated her! You also said ex's can't be friends. So... hello? I don't want to be a second choice you know? I need someone's opinion.