This is one good reason why it's best in the long run to delete your ex from social media after the break-up. There is literately no necessary reason in order to remain invited and included into any environment of theirs after there's a permanent separation.
Sometimes when it comes to relationships, you have to stop being nice and start keeping it real. Stop worrying about tip-toeing around his feelings and call the situation for what it is. It is disrespectful and outright inconsiderate for him to be doing that. It's demeaning to you, as the new woman in his life, and it diminishes pride. If he's that kind of boyfriend, then you're better off without him waiting for a man who can upstage this mess he's making. Period. Don't try to lie to yourself about those facts and do not try to pretend that this isn't the beginning of a massive sinkhole in your relationship because it is. No self-respecting woman wants to be compared to her boyfriend's ex on a daily basis nor does she want to know that another woman is occupying space on her boyfriend's mind more than she is.
You need to call him out on his bullchit. Straight up, bluntly tell him, "It's disrespectful and outright inconsiderate for you to be doing that so much that she's a top person. I don't appreciate that. If you expect me, as a self-respecting woman, to be cool with you instagram-stalking your ex then you're not fit to be in a relationship." If he tries to deflect from the fact that he's not respecting you as a girlfriend and causing a problem by claiming your jealous then say this...
"It's not about jealousy. That diminishes my pride as a girlfriend to know that some other woman is constantly on your mind."
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LOL. I do the same to my once-close friend that is a girl after I confessed to her, its because we still have some kind of mental/emotional attachment or even jealousy.
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