MAKING FIRST CONTACT
Let start off with the beginning of male to female relationship. Most men are the one approaching women than the other way around. In fact if an average looking man doesn't approach chances are he'll remain single nearly all their life.
As a man when you get a woman's number and make first contact a lot of stuff can go wrong between courting phase and becoming full fledge BF/GF.
Summary: You as the man are basically promoting to a woman why she should give you a chance.
For example she could never return your calls when you make first contact. She could go on several dates or even on the first date and drop you for someone else who comes along. She could be cucking you and sleeping with another guy while using you as her go to guy for when she wants to feel romanced and get that disney craving.
COURTING
Now let's look when you actual get a date. More often than not men are the ones who have to be the entertainers of the relationship, constantly control the topic of discussion,plan out the dates and basically keep the woman entertain. You hear more women complaining that she got bored of a man and dumped him than the other way around even though women themselves can be quite boring.
Hell, men often are the ones who have to pay for most of the dates despite women saying they do 50/50 more often than not if a man doesn't pay more than her she considers him cheap and moves onto someone else.
So to summarize: You as the man are the planner, entertainer, paying for most dates and basically trying to impress a woman at this stage.
SEX
Now suppose you were able to impress her and entertainer her enough that she wants to sleep with you. You are now in the bedroom getting down to business.
Again most sex positions require men to do all the work. I find it funny men are the ones chasing down women for sex but when you finally get a girl in bed you are the one doing most of the work moving her around, thrusting your pelvis while she just takes it. In fact studies show men burn more calories in sex than women.
According to a study conducted out of the University of Montreal, during the average 25-minute sex session, men burn about 100 calories and women burn about 69 calories
And then let's look at the reward in the form of orgasms. Now as many as 1 in 3 women have problems reaching orgasm during intercourse sex but for those that do the feeling can be way more intense than males but on average are about the same. However female orgasms last longer than males.
Additionally, women do not experience a needed relaxation period or recovery period due to the fact that their bodies do not require rebuilding of ejaculation fluids. Women do however vary in clitoral sensitivity levels after they have experienced their stimulated orgasm. This may require a period of time to relax and return to a normal sensation before continuing. Women also vary in the number of orgasms they can experience (multiple orgasms), where as men cannot.
Summary: Men put in most of the work and get least of the pleasure during sex. Yet, men are still the ones that are chasing women down for sex.
THE RELATIONSHIP PHASE
Now let's look at relationships. Men are the ones still expected to put into the same amount of effort in the courtship phase and impress the woman. Sure at this point many women may make an effort in planning out dates but for the most part the majority of the burden is on men.
It's usually women are the ones to complain that their boyfriend isn't as romantic and trying to impress her as often as he did when they first met and rather than make an effort themselves. Too many women will let the relationship die out rather than put on their big girl boots and put in some effort themselves, instead they'll complain and let the relationship die. However, I guess it is this way because women can choose and men are expendable;for every man that doesn't live up to his woman's demands there is another man begging her to be his WOMAN.
TAKING THE DIVE INTO MARRIAGE
A man gets on one leg and begs a woman to be his wife. This is the same potential wife who 5-10 years down the line could potential divorce his ass and leave him in financial ruin due to our bias court system.
So she says yes and you have to start planning for the wedding. The wedding is usually what many young girls dream about and have been planning since they were little girls. It's at this point a man really gets a crack behind whatever mask a woman has been fronting and seeing her controlling side. Wedding day isn't about you as a couple joining in full union. It's a day for a girl to feel like a princess and have enormous amount of attention placed on them and as we all know women love attention.
Now as the honeymoon is over and you finally are married. It's at this point a lot of men notice the mask women were hiding comes completely off. The cool,chill girl that use to be cool to hang out with and open to anything in bedroom gets replace by a nagging, controlling wife who now tends to have less sex with you. The reason for this is because she's got you by the balls and she knows it. You leave her and you are fucked so at this point you've given her a loaded gun and at any point you piss her off she can divorce your ass and ruin your life thanks to our current court system.
In addition, sex dries up because many men become whipped and now need to ask their wife for approval on practically everything.
Sorry guys can't go out again because my wife said we've got to go to pick up some new furniture at cosco over the weekend
So our current male-female relationship is such that men are literally slaves who try their very best to impress their slave master (women) so that they can take them back to the plantation to work. And it's only gotten worse with men not only continue doing all this but men constantly today spends hrs of their life just ass kissing multiple women online on social media about how beautiful they are.
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