Do women treat men like slaves in relationships?

[SolitarySolace]

Yes

No

[mobiusforniner]

If you’re feeling that way in a relationship, it tells me you lack self esteem and are unable to approach the situation with equal understanding or civility. Perhaps it’s out fear of losing the relationship? If that is the reason, then is that a relationship worth keeping?

A woman who loves a man wouldn’t treat him like a slave and a man who loves a woman is comfortable telling her what he feels.

[SolitarySolace]

I felt that way in all of my past relationships which is why I've sworn off women 9 years ago and over time found that I've been happier and more free being single. Interesting that I'm always attacked and laughed at for saying so 🤷🏻‍♂️

[mobiusforniner]

That’s your choice man. But if you’re truly happy, then asking this question seems rather unnecessary. The question indirectly seeks validation for a generalized perspective which, from my experience, isn’t true.

[DarkLegacy]

In every modern relationship I've come across, women use blackmail to order the men around. This is why i operate on a pump and dump rule

[DarkLegacy]

Why are all the women taking part in the poll telling lies

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks for MHO

[LaurenM1997]

I would never do that if I wanted something from the kitchen etc I would go get it myself

[SolitarySolace]

Because you're a good person 🙂

[LaurenM1997]

It’s not a guys job to go get me stuff

[LaurenM1997]

Thanks 🙂

[AI Opinion]

Oh, talk about stirring the pot! As a relationship coach, it's my job to clear out the fog when it comes to love and romance, but also to keep the atmosphere as playful as a summer's flirt. Here's the tea: relationships are a two-way street, full of ups and downs, twists and turns. The idea that women treat men like slaves? Well, that's like saying all rom-coms end in a breakup—it just isn't true. In any healthy partnership, whether you're playing footsie under the table or sharing your deepest fears, it's all about mutual respect, understanding, and teamwork. If you're feeling less like a partner and more like a servant, it's time to wave that red flag and have a heart-to-heart. Remember, whether you're serenading your love under their window or just passing the salt across the dinner table, every interaction should feel like a two-way street, not a solo sprint.

[Theworldislost]

In a healthy relationship no. In an unhealthy relationship its common.

[Juxtapose]

Only if you let them. Boundaries are important for guys too, so is self respect.

[SolitarySolace]

Women rarely accept boundaries men set.

[Juxtapose]

Then act like how they would act if you did not respect their boundaries. Remind them of equality.

[SolitarySolace]

They only want equality for themselves it's one sided if you haven't figured that out yet you have a lot to learn.

[Juxtapose]

Generalizing women is like generalizing black people, it has some truth but individualism trumps generalization.

[SolitarySolace]

It definitely does not women generalize men all the time. We're all rapists aren't we? We're all abusive, aren't we? We must be upholding the patriarchy because we're men right? See...

[Juxtapose]

The women I have dated have treated me as an equal. One older woman I went on a date with even offered to pay for my meal when the restaurant would not let me split the check. I felt so happy about it I paid for the meal myself to reward her.

[SolitarySolace]

That's great that you've had good experiences. I've been cheated on in all of mine. Had to do everything for them when they never did anything for me. I guess it has to do with where I'm from vs where you're from. Unfortunately I don't plan on moving so I guess nothing will ever change.

[Juxtapose]

I have been all over the United States and lived in four states so far. It really comes down to how much self-respect you have and how soon and how firmly you put your foot down. Don't let other people disrespect you, defend yourself like you would defend your closest and most favorite person in the world. You deserve it.

[SolitarySolace]

Well I don't have a favorite person. I only respect myself others have to earn my respect and a woman has yet to do that in today's gynocentric social order

[Juxtapose]

What about your mom?

[SolitarySolace]

My mom is my mom. Although I absolutely hated her growing up she's still family and I'm stuck with her. I dont have to be stuck with a random woman

[Juxtapose]

Well I encourage you to go talk with more people and be open to finding a female friend who will genuinely care about you.

[SolitarySolace]

The last time I had a female Friend she falsely accused me of stalking and of having a gun and potentially shooting up our college. Was served an ex ppo and was so afraid to go to class every day I would dry heave into my toilet so no thanks no female friends haven't had any for years I barely even hang out with my male frinds

[Juxtapose]

It sounds like you have some trouble evaluating people's character. I have never run into people like that because I stay far away from people who give off certain vibes.

Maybe try therapy? Or go to a gathering of men and ask them how they evaluate people's character?

[SolitarySolace]

I see a counselor and no thanks I'd rather just hate women because I prefer to be single after all the bullshit

[Juxtapose]

Being single is fine but basically being bigoted towards half the population is not going to work in your favor.

Lots of people are shit, including men. Having a vagina doesn't make you more evil, remember that men commit more violent crime.

[SolitarySolace]

True but women took over an entire society https://youtu.be/Zg8DfeDw04I?si=XRXlBtphwf3wmtF7

[Juxtapose]

Most women are not raging feminists who have a Marxist agenda to destabilize and demoralize social relations between the sexes. Most women are barely aware of politics and they want a man who is fun and makes them feel good.

[SolitarySolace]

That's what they want you to think... That most women aren't. The ideological divide between men and women is growing. What's happening? - www.independent.co.uk/.../...e-women-b2488939.html

[Juxtapose]

I mean yeah, women tend to be more left-leaning because that's in their nature. The last woman I saw though? She said she wanted to support Trump because he has balls and says what he means. Meanwhile my male friend who was with us said he supports Biden.

You can find plenty of women who are right wing if that's what you want. The American south has a lot of them.

[SolitarySolace]

That would suck because no right wing woman would want to get with a man who doesn't want children nor marriage. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Juxtapose]

Exceptions exist.

[Snakeyes7]

It is definitely not a guarantee that they will.

[SolitarySolace]

How is it not a guarantee that they will? I felt like a slave in all of my past relationships. So I don't have relationships anymore

[Snakeyes7]

I don't know what the actual probability is but it is pretty common that you will live under the mantra "happy wife happy life" in a relationship. The only reason we even have it is because it is socially unacceptable to question a woman, much less a feminist. It's why they have so much lobbying power.

[SolitarySolace]

That's what's wrong with society. The fact that it is unacceptable to question women. Gives them entitlement complexes, condescension and creates more feminists. I'm never getting married so I won't have to be forced to live by that ridiculously sexist mantra

[Snakeyes7]

Yeah divorce actually needs to be difficult to achieve again. That way, it will keep the people who do not have any sense of loyalty in check instead of letting them ruin whatever relationships they create as soon as they get bored.

[SolitarySolace]

Yup, women are the only ones who benefit at all from getting a divorce. Which would explain the fact that they initiate 70-80% of divorces

[mobiusforniner]

@SolitarySolace dude, if all your relationships ended badly that either means you like trashy women or you’re not a suitable partner. Either way, it’s a reflection upon yourself. To generalize all women as “bad” and using social causes as reasons for your personal shortcomings is simply you seeking blame and avoiding accountability. That alone is a huge turn off and red flag for most women. So fix your own shit instead finding reasons to be upset. Your life will be a lot happier.

[SolitarySolace]

Nah I'd rather just stay single never have to worry about living under a woman's boot. I don't care if I'm the problem I honestly hope I am

[Snakeyes7]

Go ahead and do that I guess. I think changing the laws so that it wouldn't be completely legal for women to screw their husband over in marriage would help our situation a lot.

But that requires our society to be able to see women as equally as capable of corruption and violence as men are which won't happen any time soon.

[SolitarySolace]

But that requires our society to be able to see women as equally as capable of corruption and violence as men are which won't happen any time soon.

And that right there is the problem no one seems to care enough to give a single flying fuck about... 😪 I'm the only one who would apparently kill to have that happen

[MadhuriDixit]

Some B*tches do I guess

[Cheapskate]

Some women do. Others not.

[msc545]

Of course they do.

[LiamJHayden]

Some will if it is allowed.

[Nifrayu]

Some do. It's sad.

[OtterMan68]

not real men.