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This has boggled my mind we met online.. he is the perfect guy in person! I understand in taking things slow we live 3 hours apart.. we talked online for 2 months before we met.. he told me he thought I would stand him up.. we met half way in between it was absolutely amazing..

Its hard for us to hang out he works 3 days on 2 off 11pm- 7am.. I work by schedule thats out six weeks in advance most of the time 10:30am -7pm or 12pm- 8:30pn.. over the phone we do not talk much he only has text now.. It feels as though its serious on my end but not on his.. let me explain what I mean.. he insisted on meeting my family I just introduced him as his name cause I didn't know what we are.. a month ago I have not met his.. he's been devorsed for 3 years.. he has a son.. he said his parents treat him like a black sheep..

When I aaked him what we are? he said im your man there's no one else.. told me he has a hard time trusting that im his dream girl just he doesn't understand the timing.. he explained how he took a loan to pay off her school debt and his she cheated left him got prego from another guy and came back cause he kicked her out.. he told her hed raise the son with her as his own.. 2 months after she has him.. she cheats again they got a devorse and its been 3 years since he's brought any girl around his family... I really want to be the girl.. like were together first meal I always pay my own way the first meal he said he was prepared to pay.. I explained its something I have always done and not many guys have ever paid for me so looking forward to the second.. then he opened up about the fact I deserve better that he's trying to build back up and I said I dont want you money I want you.. I got a job getting rid of my own debt wanting to get a mini home and in his area.. he shows in many ways he cares for me he's never said I love you.. he told me he wants to marry me and for my goals.. told me to not give up but let him no if I want some1 else.

So the rule for a lot of these business relationships is that the number one thing you are selling is yourself.

Of course that first means your compntency and results but to build a relationship that lasts for 3 years and beyond not clients want to know about your personal life. It makes you relatable and builds trust beyond the business wranglings.

If you are simply working 70 or more hours a week, no kids and no foreign vacations for 3 or more years the client will fail to connect with you.

Ideally you have a spouse and a kid. But if not, you’re going on exciting vacations. Or fostering dogs, playing in a band on Saturdays... running marathons.

The truth is- YES!!! And more please, we should all have some kind of balance in our lives.

The truth may be more of... I have a partner I adore, a dog who gets treated better than some children, currently fostering dogs but can’t turn my house to meet the halfway home safety like requirements needed to foster one kid.