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So this guy was always hot and cold with me. He asks me out then cancels last minute. I confront him the next day and then asks me out again. I was nervous because I thought he was going to cancel again. We decided to meet at 7:30.
he didn’t text me until 7:30 and says he’s going to be late and didn’t show up until 30 min. We went on a date and he paid for a drink at the bar. We went to an arcade in which I paid for the tokens. After that we went to the movies. He paid for the tickets but asked me for $5 to chip in. That’s no biggie. After our date we decide to go around town. Turns out he needs a ride. Which I don’t mind. So I drove him around town then drop him off at home. He didn’t say thank you for the ride.

We met the next day because we wanted to have sex. We were feeling each other. He asks me to pick him up. So I did because we wanted car sex. After the car sex I wanted to eat something small at least. So I suggested McDonald’s. He said sure. I ended up buying fries. I guess I expected him to buy me $2 fries but he didn’t. I wasn’t mad or think about it at first. After that we hooked up again. Then I dropped him off again and he left. He didn’t even say thanks for picking him up again. I know I shouldn’t expect anything. But if someone picked me up and used their gas. I would at least chip in $5 for gas or something small like buy them a hamburger for fries. Am I expecting too much?

I've been debating this for a while, and I wondered if maybe seeing the opinions of others would help me make a decision. I've been quarantining with a small group of friends since the virus shut everything down, and one of them I've taken... quite the liking to. We haven't hung out much, but every time the group gets together we seem to talk to each other the most. I want to make a move, and I am DEFINITELY going to. I'm just wondering if I should make it now, or wait until we've spent some more time together to ask for one-on-one time.

To add some detail:
I don't even have his phone number, snapchat, anything. The only way I have to contact him privately is his discord, since we share a friend server. Half the time it's hard to tell if he's interested or just funny/nice, and because of this combination of things I'm a little bit unsure if it's too early to make a move. When we hang out, we joke around and tease each other a lot, but as far as I can tell he doesn't treat me that much differently from any of the other guys in the group (one of which has a girlfriend). I know he loves cooking, and I've been considering asking him if he would be okay with showing me how to prepare some dishes, since that seems like a fun first date/way to get to know each other. But I wonder if it's too intimate/weird to ask someone I haven't spent much alone time with? What do you guys think?

(Bonus question-- should I ask him over discord or IRL? Asking him irl makes me nervous considering it would probably be in front of our other friends, but it IS usually considered the better choice...)