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There's this guy I work with who has never had a girlfriend before, and I'm assuming he's a virgin. He's 23 years old, he's kind, he's funny, he's smart, has two degrees (graduating with his second one this year), has a stable job and plans on keeping it while working in the medical field, and he is very fit and lives a healthy lifestyle. You would think that I, and any other girl, would be attracted to him, right? Emotionally, yes. He is an overall great guy, and I can tell that down the road he's going to be very successful. We are very alike in many ways and have similar goals in life. I'm almost 18 (28 more days!), and plan on going to university to get a degree in neuroscience and psychology, and then hopefully move on to grad school so that I could also work in the medical field. I want to get married and have kids one day, and so does he. It's like we were meant for each other. The problem is, he's physically attracted to me and I don't feel the same way about him. I honestly feel bad for saying this, but I have absolutely no physical attraction to him. I can't even stand the thought of having sex with him. I actually feel really bad for rejecting him in the past based only on his looks, but I also feel like it would be wrong for me to be in a relationship with him and avoid having sex with him. Honestly, if I was to be in a relationship with him, I would let him have sex with any girl he wants, and in return, I could have sex with any guy I want. It's not hard for me to get guys these days, and I'm not trying to brag. After being bullied for years, because of my looks, puberty has finally worked well for me, so I attract all kinds of guys, from a McDonald's manager, to lawyer, to surgeon, etc. However, none of their personality compare to his.